01-20-2016, 10:41 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-20-2016, 10:44 PM by wolverine_i_am.)
(01-20-2016, 10:08 PM)CatMan Wrote: I don't have approach anxiety (OAA4G is in 4 stages of SM3 anyway if I did). My problem was the program felt like nothing was happening, despite doing 3,610 hours on it.Yeah that's fair enough. I understand where you're coming from. I used to have fear too. Like before I got into the whole pick up thing, I had so much feelings of undeservingness. I also had the fear of success. Before I was getting dates, I didn't think I was good enough for any girl and didn't know what to do if I ever got myself into the situation of having a girl in front of me. Or that if I had her in front of me, I was afraid that I'd be boring to her and not able to keep her interested/attracted to me. Those were the fears I had. I've long overcome that though. It was a long process. Did so much cold approaching. Struggled to get phone numbers for the first 2 months. Eventually got numbers, but struggled to get dates. Now getting dates, but struggling to take it further. But yeah, one step at a time. I can see why SM3 would be fruitless had I tried it out earlier regardless, despite having fear lingering inside of me. Now that I am constantly throwing myself into the deep end, I feel as though I can move straight onto the magnets after the AM6.
I had fear I didn't know I had before starting, which was only evident AFTER spending the time on SM3. That caused most of the program to be stonewalled. And Shannon says the main reason people fail on magnets is due to fear. So doing OF first makes sense. But, due to the allure of magnets, most guys don't seem to listen and plough through to magnets, only to be disappointed. I'm just trying to keep others from making the same mistake.
No I'm not, it's best to stick to one magnet and ingrain it, trying to do both and AM6, ingraining all of them isn't very practical and a lot of the programming in the magnets conflicts. And it generally takes 3 runs, sometimes more, to fully ingrain a program. I have 3,610 hours and over 1 billion words invested into SM3. There's two distinct magnet programs for a reason, of course. I'm not even sure if I'll redo SM3. That's a ways off. I'm doing a lot of OF4G/OF5G and Overcome Procrastination, and topping up my two addiction subs, SM4G and OPA4G before I redo AM6 for 4,000 hours. So I'll be about 6 months or so before doing AM6 it seems, depending on how my OF4G run goes, I may or may not need OF5G.
Hrmmm interesting. So you're one of the rare few guys on this forum who say WM2 shouldn't be mixed with SM3. Yeah, reading over the descriptions on the site, they seem to be different things. WM2 is about having a lot of women around you, whereas SM3 is about the sex. I already have the former, but not the latter. Thanks for helping me with making my decision more clear. I'll just go for the SM3 after AM6.
(01-20-2016, 10:29 PM)Voytek Wrote: wolverine_i_am, as CatMan said, you should decide after your AM6`s ride, what to do next. May be OF for a while and then SM3. You`ll see, what your programming brings. Any way, if you`re good with women, WM2 should take you at way higher level with `your game`.Yes, although shouldn't SM3 also improve my game as well? You've mentioned in your posts that you also have no problems chatting to girls and having a lot of them attracted to you, however you aren't sure how to make it sexual. I'm in the exact same predicament haha. Maybe SM3 is what be both need.