I see flaking as wasting my time. Which I don't give people many chances to do. If a woman flakes on me, I'll usually just presume she's not serious and move along. Flaking is a sign of disrespect, and may also be a test. What will you do if I disrespect you this way? I don't waste my time. If she comes back, I usually don't give her very much priority until and unless she earns MY respect back for pulling stupid crap like that. It's all about not having time to waste on stupid crap.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!