12-04-2015, 07:48 PM
(12-04-2015, 07:30 PM)Guider Wrote: This isn't a bad idea. You know , we are all connected. I think that you have to remember, there's always someone going to be more alpha and more beta than you. So that puts you in the middle.
Now that you've got rid of that bs. Go out and achieve something you want or not. Just sit there and be happy. Life is like this subliminal store, you can just pick and choose experiences. Just an observation. Please, empower yourself.
Well, I intend to become a pua still, buuut this changes my perspective, in that what function for the "hive" does being a pua serve? Maybe the reason most guys say "have a purpose" is because unless you're contributing in some way to the hive, you won't be seen as a reproductive option. Then again, scientists often don't have much success with girls (and yet they contribute a lot I'd say) so who knows.
There's also the whole "self-love/self-acceptance" thing that I don't understand just yet (and my people-pleasing/beta brother with mommy issues seems to have in spades these days because he's loved externally. The more people like him, the better he feels. This, I think, is actually what we should strive for, rather than breaking off the norm and "being your own man", but I digress)
Ultimately, I'm wondering if we should focus on this (as a species) like we're focusing on climate change. We should also STOP focusing on tolerance and labeling people, but more focus on acceptance of whatever IS in people around us, and within of course.
Also, for the starcraft nerds out there like myself, this was a good video too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQirYEU2LOo
