Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

I'm thinking about the true reason many guys want to run it.

Girls-related and sex-related fears.

I've noticed that even though there appears to be a lot of progress in other areas of guy's lives by using this program, girls and sex directly doesn't seem to have a lot of growth. I'm wondering why this is, if guys are supposedly fearful of girls and sex. If they truly have a fear of girls and sex and that's why they aren't getting the results they want, then why hasn't OF made an impact in that area of their lives?

My suggestion, there needs to be a targeted focus in there dealing with fears of those you're attracted to, opening up to them, having sex with them. For some reason, these fears seem to be able to keep progress from occurring with them even during long runs of OF 4G. I feel this added change will handle it and vastly improve the program.

Hello Shannon.

Just posted this in another thread and thought it could be of use while making OF 5G.

I think it could really make a difference.

Overcoming fear is targeted at fear. All fear. That includes all of the things you can come up with to specifically target. All at once. Based on my experiences, I would say the issue is that the program is not being used for long enough.