There is some truth to the notion of making things happen but it also works both ways and in the case of an AYP even more so. The person who is your ideal lover or sex partner will appear in your life and be attracted strongly to you. She will at least give off signals which you can easily act on. It might be through conversation or actions.
From what Shannon has said on the subject this person will be quite unmistakable when they come into your life. If you feel the need to go and chat up every women you see then none of them will be "the one". The law of averages will come into play and you'll meet someone who does want to have sex with you then you'll be 'amazed' at how well the sub works!
My advice is to be patient but open to new experiences and people.
From what Shannon has said on the subject this person will be quite unmistakable when they come into your life. If you feel the need to go and chat up every women you see then none of them will be "the one". The law of averages will come into play and you'll meet someone who does want to have sex with you then you'll be 'amazed' at how well the sub works!
My advice is to be patient but open to new experiences and people.