02-28-2011, 08:39 AM
I can tell that your life is hard right now but you just keep on doing what you’re doing, and I know you will get to where you want to be!
The sad truth about weight issues in my opinion is that they can be so integrated within yourself, from the way you feel about yourself to the way others perceive you to be. That’s a lot of negativity that you have to unleash.
My daughter dated a guy for 6 years whom I love and was really pulling for to be my son in-law. They blew that! But that’s a whole other story for a different day. They are today the best of friends, which it took a long time to achieve after coming out of a yucky relationship. But I’m glad they got past it. Anyway, he was so heavy when he was a kid that he couldn’t even play rec football or wrestling. I think it was when he was in 8th grade that he went on some kind of carrot diet or something (not a diet person myself) and lost tons of weight. He also started lifting weights and working out a great deal. He gained a lot of respect throughout high school because of his appearance change and today is amazingly slapped together. He’s a force to be reckoned with because he’s now got the body to back up his negative feelings (from being so heavy when he was younger) and that’s not a good thing. I do plan on showing him these subs because I truly believe he would use them to help himself! I see many issues within him other than just left over anger that has trickled into the rest of his daily life.
That’s why I’m so happy for you to be able to release these feelings and move on!
Keep it up…you are truly an inspiration to me!
The sad truth about weight issues in my opinion is that they can be so integrated within yourself, from the way you feel about yourself to the way others perceive you to be. That’s a lot of negativity that you have to unleash.
My daughter dated a guy for 6 years whom I love and was really pulling for to be my son in-law. They blew that! But that’s a whole other story for a different day. They are today the best of friends, which it took a long time to achieve after coming out of a yucky relationship. But I’m glad they got past it. Anyway, he was so heavy when he was a kid that he couldn’t even play rec football or wrestling. I think it was when he was in 8th grade that he went on some kind of carrot diet or something (not a diet person myself) and lost tons of weight. He also started lifting weights and working out a great deal. He gained a lot of respect throughout high school because of his appearance change and today is amazingly slapped together. He’s a force to be reckoned with because he’s now got the body to back up his negative feelings (from being so heavy when he was younger) and that’s not a good thing. I do plan on showing him these subs because I truly believe he would use them to help himself! I see many issues within him other than just left over anger that has trickled into the rest of his daily life.
That’s why I’m so happy for you to be able to release these feelings and move on!
Keep it up…you are truly an inspiration to me!
If you're searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror!
