10-17-2015, 03:10 PM
Of course you can't just fire and forget because unless she appears suddenly in your life and starts banging you immediately, then there has got to be a build-up to it that will be noticeable, or at least circumstances that are very different to your current life set-up. These are the sorts of things I like to journal on.
I also read somewhere (from Shannon I think?) that you can encounter very similar ones before the perfect one shows up. I think he called them "Shades" or something like that. It may not be the case for everyone but it shows that the fire and forget principle is not something that's easy to do.
I only think about the sub when anything out of the ordinary or coincidental happens, which isn't that often but it makes you think, and naturally your thoughts turn to the sub as a possible reason for them.
I also read somewhere (from Shannon I think?) that you can encounter very similar ones before the perfect one shows up. I think he called them "Shades" or something like that. It may not be the case for everyone but it shows that the fire and forget principle is not something that's easy to do.
I only think about the sub when anything out of the ordinary or coincidental happens, which isn't that often but it makes you think, and naturally your thoughts turn to the sub as a possible reason for them.
