08-31-2015, 02:09 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-31-2015, 02:11 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Interesting, and hot girl.
I've noticed from my own experiences that whenever I embrace my "dark" sides, I am more accepted by others but do not necessarily succeed at my goals in life. In the case of women, I can say that I have made progress simply by changing a few of my behaviors. Call it what you will, but you CAN change some things, and reap the rewards.
I think the sweet spot is to accept yourself but as a means of change. Much like you would accept having a broken bone and then go to the doctor to get it set.
Also, what exactly is required to "get" what you want to get? If you want light, let's say, in a dark room, accepting that it's dark does not bring light, but turning on the lights in the room will.
It's much like that. It's also important to note that life is infinite, and so are results, but if you want SPECIFIC results, you have to do SPECIFIC things.
My 2 cents.
I've noticed from my own experiences that whenever I embrace my "dark" sides, I am more accepted by others but do not necessarily succeed at my goals in life. In the case of women, I can say that I have made progress simply by changing a few of my behaviors. Call it what you will, but you CAN change some things, and reap the rewards.
I think the sweet spot is to accept yourself but as a means of change. Much like you would accept having a broken bone and then go to the doctor to get it set.
Also, what exactly is required to "get" what you want to get? If you want light, let's say, in a dark room, accepting that it's dark does not bring light, but turning on the lights in the room will.
It's much like that. It's also important to note that life is infinite, and so are results, but if you want SPECIFIC results, you have to do SPECIFIC things.
My 2 cents.