(07-11-2015, 02:45 PM)iRRepLaceaBLe Wrote: But what if our body makes us ejaculate during sleep ? We can't can't possibly control this therefore it would sabotage us.
What is more,it is very hard to not let ourselves cum during continuos intercourse .How can we preserve our semen if we are having sex or getting bjS for hours ?
you can control it, you probably just don't know yet how. You only ejaculate during sleep if you had a wet dream about something sexual. If you ejaculate during sleep without having a wet dream... you probably still had a wet dream but you don't remember it. There are 2 ways to prevent having wet dreams. One is difficult but works 100% of the time, the other is easy but only works if the sexual dreams aren't rooted too deeply.
The easy way is to get rid of your wet dreams while you are awake. wet dreams are an unconscious release of the built up that is created while you are awake. Most often this is the case when you are used to getting aroused often and release often through masturbation, porn or sex, and suddenly you stop releasing/ejaculating. Your body is used to getting its release and will release when you don't have much conscious control to hold the release back (when you sleep). The key is to change your waking arousal patterns so they don't get triggered as often while you are awake, so they don't build up aroused energy that gets released during sleep. This can be done in many different ways.
The 2nd way is harder but always works. It is about becoming lucid during your dreams. When you are lucid in your dream you can change the dream and revoke it's sexual charge (i.e. by changing to a neutral and non sexual scenery). That's how I got rid of my wet dreams. I didn't have a single wet dream for 23 years and when I started semen retention they suddenly started.
I practiced becoming lucid and when I had a sex dream (which happened frequently at that time) I consciously stopped f*cking when I knew I'm about to come. I had to do this for 2 weeks consciously. After that even when I wasn't lucid I was so conditioned to not coming while dreaming that the wet dreams stopped without any intervention needed. I still had sex dreams, but they didn't become wet dreams as I broke the conditioning of having to "release" during sleep. That's how I cured myself from wet dreams and how anybody else can do that as well.
Quote:What is more,it is very hard to not let ourselves cum during continuos intercourse .How can we preserve our semen if we are having sex or getting bjS for hours ?
That's the difficult part. It's about having control of your mental state, and controling your arousal. If you meditate regularly you slowly gain conscious control over otherwise unconscious processes. You gain control over your thoughts, over your emotions and even over your heartbeat, control over your arousal is way more forward than that and faster to learn. The hard part isn't learning to control your arousal it's having the discipline to actually doing it once you know how