Question for Shannon About AM/SM

[SargeMaximus]

Brother SargeMaximus i praise you for your honesty and integrity. From my memories of reading your previous posts you have shaped and grown in a very positive way.

Many great men such as Napoleon Hil, Richard Branson learned to store and channel their sexual energy to use in a productive way. Rather then unleashing it in into the first girl they meet. The term is transmutation if I am correct.

You have done your home work you are on the path to greatness.

I think so as well, thank you. This does not mean I will not have sex, it simply means that when having sex, I will not cum. This energy is much better than a temporary release.

I think it would be more fear of an awkward or embarrassing situation, coming off as weird and creepy and then I think what everyone else on the bus would think and stuff like that and I just don't act.

Ah yes, well there are two thoughts on that, and both require your own discretion in the situation.

1. As Julien advocates: Welcome, embrace, and explore the awkward/embarrasing situations. This CAN be good, depending on the situation

2. My own realization is that you can't (and shouldn't) approach EVERY girl. In a situation like that, perhaps it's best to just realize you are attractive, and let that seed be planted. There are plenty of other girls out there.

I've been aware of stuff for a long time. I have been balls deep into pickup since I was 17 and I'm 27 now. I don't know why I just won't meet a woman on my own, like I have to meet her though a friend, or online, or at work, something like that, or if I'm completely shitfaced I'll start talking to girls wherever I'm at, but I am never just sober, and see a girl I don't know, and just go up to her and say hi even when I know all lights are green like tonight. I pick up on extremely subtle things with girls. And I definitely can relate to about how you said I won't act because I think it won't go anywhere anyways. That's 100% of the time when I just see a hottie, but when I'm getting signs like tonight it's just me being a p*s*y. If someone saw it happen they wouldn't have thought one thing about it, but I just know all these subtle little things. Like if someone that never studied pua or female psychology or anything saw what happened, they'd actually think that girl had absolute zero interest in me because I smiled at her and she instantly looked away, they'd be like, 'dude you're an idiot, that girl did not have any interest in you whatsoever' but I know she liked me. Not only did I notice a ton of subtle things that I believe means she really likes me, I could also feel her energy and my own, that probably sounds extremely stupid idk if you ever felt it but it's almost a feeling like ours souls or spirits were holding hands like I can't really put it into words, it's just a feeling and I've felt it before with a couple different girls and I know it's real because this one girl in particular that I was literally in love with and I know she loved me too but it was before I knew anything about women and just thought there's no way a girl like her would ever have romantic feelings for a guy like me but we were sitting on a couch next to each other and I could feel it big time, and it felt amazing, and she said 'do you feel that?' and I knew exactly what she was talking about but I was a super retard back then and was just like no I think you're tripping or something stupid like that.

Woah! Wait, I have to stop you right there.

THAT is the key to "pick up" and women. The energy. Even ioi's aren't a good indicator. The ENERGY you feel is. Eventually, you can learn to cultivate and manipulate it. To do this, you must stop ejaculating. Porn is fine, masturbation is fine, edging is fine (I edge for hours) but do NOT cum.

What happens is you get more in tune with this energy, and girls feel it too.

Now, this is a LONG topic, can't go into it here, but basically, pay attention to that. Remember that experience, and the one on the bus, and think about them. Recall the feeling. Next time you're out, try your best to get in touch with the feelings you have between yourself and the women around you. Let yourself be attuned to their energy. Start with that.

I myself just walk up to a woman and say "Excuse me, can I tell you something really quickly?" they say yes and I say "I just saw you, and I thought you were cute, and had to say hi." that's it. The rest is all energy. and I'm getting more physical with these women because my energy permits it.

Actually that was shortly after I first found David DeAngelo and was all into his cocky and funny stuff. But, yea, it sounds crazy but I totally believe 100% it's real idk if it's spirits or auras or our energies or souls or what, but I've experienced the feeling a few times. With the girl on the bus the feeling wasn't nearly as strong as with the girl from my past, but the feeling was there though. She would be my girlfriend right now if I wasn't such a puss.

Don't worry about it man. We're all pussies at one point or another. Get Better NOT Bitter as Tyler says. Watch that movie again and, as a homework assignment, go to the mall and just walk around feeling your feelings. That's it. Don't buy anything, and spend about a half hour there just feeling your internal feelings.

The go home and reflect. Tell me about it if you want.

Barely anyone knows about the energy between us and women, so you're already miles ahead.