Question for Shannon About AM/SM

[TheRealJustin]

I'll have to look into that tea, and yea Tyler is awesome, totally made pickup make sense to me and made me stop like, idk, I guess you could say I stopped looking for some secret answer that doesn't exist, I'm not sure how else to say it.

Dude, i know EXACTLY what you mean. I'm still trying to get over that, but I definitely know it. Tonight I spoke to some girls and I realized I was trying to force the interaction with tensing up lol. as if making a physical effort could change HER somehow lol. Definitely magic-pill syndrom.

I did look at this gorgeous Mexican girl on the bus, I can't even explain how attracted I was to her and we locked eyes, I smiled friendly and she looked away, then dug in her purse, started putting on lip balm or something, and then started running her hands through her hair and playing with her hair like crazy. It was so obvious I could have talked to her, got her number, went out with her sometime and had her be my girlfriend, and I would LOVE to have that girl be my girlfriend and I don't even want a girlfriend, but I just couldn't say anything. Just couldn't do it. That was like an hour ago. It's not fear of rejection because I couldn't care less about rejection, I don't know what it is, but I am going to overcome it somehow.

That's good man! You know how long it took ME to overcome mutual smiling? I STILL have trouble with it.

The main thing is: YOU NOTICED IT. Awareness comes first, now all you have to do is push the boundaries. Keep pushing and pushing yourself as you become more and more aware. It really is that simple.

Also i totally know about not having fear of rejection but still being paralyzed, because I had/have that. I think it's when we think, consciously or unconsciously, that even if we DO act, nothing will come of it. Or, in your case, might just be fear of success? What do you think?

I think it would be more fear of an awkward or embarrassing situation, coming off as weird and creepy and then I think what everyone else on the bus would think and stuff like that and I just don't act. I've been aware of stuff for a long time. I have been balls deep into pickup since I was 17 and I'm 27 now. I don't know why I just won't meet a woman on my own, like I have to meet her though a friend, or online, or at work, something like that, or if I'm completely shitfaced I'll start talking to girls wherever I'm at, but I am never just sober, and see a girl I don't know, and just go up to her and say hi even when I know all lights are green like tonight. I pick up on extremely subtle things with girls. And I definitely can relate to about how you said I won't act because I think it won't go anywhere anyways. That's 100% of the time when I just see a hottie, but when I'm getting signs like tonight it's just me being a p*s*y. If someone saw it happen they wouldn't have thought one thing about it, but I just know all these subtle little things. Like if someone that never studied pua or female psychology or anything saw what happened, they'd actually think that girl had absolute zero interest in me because I smiled at her and she instantly looked away, they'd be like, 'dude you're an idiot, that girl did not have any interest in you whatsoever' but I know she liked me. Not only did I notice a ton of subtle things that I believe means she really likes me, I could also feel her energy and my own, that probably sounds extremely stupid idk if you ever felt it but it's almost a feeling like ours souls or spirits were holding hands like I can't really put it into words, it's just a feeling and I've felt it before with a couple different girls and I know it's real because this one girl in particular that I was literally in love with and I know she loved me too but it was before I knew anything about women and just thought there's no way a girl like her would ever have romantic feelings for a guy like me but we were sitting on a couch next to each other and I could feel it big time, and it felt amazing, and she said 'do you feel that?' and I knew exactly what she was talking about but I was a super retard back then and was just like no I think you're tripping or something stupid like that. Actually that was shortly after I first found David DeAngelo and was all into his cocky and funny stuff. But, yea, it sounds crazy but I totally believe 100% it's real idk if it's spirits or auras or our energies or souls or what, but I've experienced the feeling a few times. With the girl on the bus the feeling wasn't nearly as strong as with the girl from my past, but the feeling was there though. She would be my girlfriend right now if I wasn't such a puss.