Question for Shannon About AM/SM

[SargeMaximus]

The Vampire Diaries is 100% made for women, but I love it, and all the subtleties like it almost seems like it's based off of pickup how they can 'compel' people and how they act and everything, it's almost like alpha pua's with a deep understanding of NLP and covert hypnosis. That show is nuts.

Well a vampire IS a symbol of carnal desire, at least that's how I've always interpreted it. But most shows get it wrong. In VD, I like the creative use of the vampire's powers, and wouldn't mind the show overall, except that it's too Disney. Not to mention that Stephen's powers surge up whenever he gets close to sex, and it's overtoned as "bad" or at the very least "evil".

One of the things I hated about most horror movies is that sex is often tied to horrible things happening, so it sure does not help the psyche, nor my limiting beliefs. I must be careful what I allow in.

I'm interested in the plot slightly, but I will undoubtedly be stopping. I need positive masculine influences, not more estrogen, but to each their own.

When I'm drunk too though, I'm a lot more out going and just having a blast, and I have a silver tongue, and I just know whoever I talk to is going to have a blast talking to me. When I'm sober it's not like that. Even when I'm introduced to a girl through a friend it's like I'm just calm and build attraction slowly and subtly, and I feel like if I were to approach a stranger in a mall or something I wouldn't really know what to say or anything and I'd come in with low boring energy, and if I'm juiced it's just like I don't even know what I'm saying I'm just rambling and laughing and they're laughing and I'm high energy having a blast fun to be around, in control, confident, it's just different. And it's not everytime I drink I just become like that, it's only when I'm drinking AND I'm having a super fun night then I turn into a energy ball of fun.

I'm like that whenever I commit to an interaction. My default state is "blah" but if I decide to switch on the charm, look out.

I actually went out to do some approaches today. No women I wanted were around despite high volumes. I figure most people are families on a saturday afternoon. I'll try later.

I'm getting near that tipping point like how you mentioned, which is exciting. I still don't want to engage just anybody, but I know if I did, it'd be easy and would coast so long as she was interested.

Which reminds me, there was ONE particularly cute girl who reached out to me to shake my hand. I would have loved to talk with her, but she was a sales promoter, and I asked her to make sure. When she confirmed that she was, I said I wasn't interested and left.

I don't like those dynamics.

Anyhow, more later.

I do need to start working on that though because I really don't want to drink anymore, at least not often at all, like maybe once every blue moon. I feel like if I had a better life it would be more automatic, and I would have that fee good emotion with high energy naturally. That's part of the reason I started having a super juice every morning, and started Ultra Success and stopped biabws because I just need to have a better life so I feel better, health and wealth, but that's also no reason to not start now.

What's super juice?

But yeah, it's good you want to get away. Also, I'm not down on alcohol because of "morality", I'm down on it because it kills testosterone, and is not, by any stretch, a measure of TRUE confidence. Which is also why I don't approach sales girls. Because despite the fact that I'm sure I could KILL IT now with who I am, I also know that, for whatever reason, when I know someone is catering to me, I take advantage of it and get alpha by default. Without that dynamic, it's not as strong.

So yeah, out of a desire to be honest with myself, I won't do it anymore.

It's good for training wheels, like for you it could be great cause they're paid to be nice (and I even had a sales girl recognize me on the other end of the city 2 weeks after I chatted with her one time and she was BEAMING happy to see me), just don't let it become a crutch, that's my motto.

I've never heard of Johnny Soporno, thanks for mentioning him. I've always wanted a bigger guy to learn from, it's harder seeing a bunch of rich good looking guys tell me stuff when they really don't know what it's like to be me, and that makes it harder to try things too because I'm like, yea this works for him, but I'm not as good looking as him, I just think too much when I'm sober. I do have Positive Thinking running also, I wonder if those two programs will help me in this area, they're really general so it will be interesting to see what happens with them.

Yeah I dunno man. Have you ever read the book "A Thousand Tiny Failures"? I finished it in 2 sittings, and am half-way through it again. The guy had man-tits but got surgery. I don't think you NEED it (again, wish I remember, but I recently saw a pua who had man tits and was very average looking), but it could be something to consider.

I know you aren't getting results with AM or SM, but maybe BIABWS would be good for you, plus it's cheap. The only affirmations directed at straight males specifically are just two affirmations to stop guys from hitting on you or becoming attracted to you, but the rest of the affirmations seem like they'd work fine even if you're bi. Once I'm on my feet financially, I'm probably going to run that program for a few years straight.

But what if I want guys to hit on me?? lol.

Generally I don't, but I do enjoy attention. Plus, there ARE some guys... >>

Actually I have BIATBW, but not sexually. I wonder if that would work, I'll have to ask Shannon. It'd be great if I could use it with EPRHA, but I'm guessing not.

But, do you NOT want AM/SM instead?

Anyways, I'm glad we had this talk, it got my mind going back in a direction I was straying away from.

Yes me too. I'm back into approaching again, which is something for me too.

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