05-16-2015, 07:30 AM
(05-16-2015, 02:31 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(05-15-2015, 11:24 PM)TheRealJustin Wrote: It would be cool if we knew each other in real life because we could just go out and practice getting good with women until it was just normal to go out and meet a bunch of women every day.
Wow though, I just went on the biggest rant ever lol.
Yes you did lol. And I agree, it'd be great if we could do this together irl. I only have my one wingman, but he's more an advocate for Johnny Soporno and Allan Roger Currie, and so far hasn't picked up any girls near me. So it's hard to believe him, but I can't imagine why he'd lie.
I've still been able to go a few weeks where I go out every day, but I've totally lost my motivation, now that I see I'm missing something. Just not worth the time atm.
Now, don't take this the wrong way, but how many successful SOBER lays have you "pulled"? The reason I ask is because it'll give me an indication of what kind of "man" ones need to be. I am neither outgoing, nor charismatic, but I do have charm, and am a hidden treasure that sneaks up on people socially. Especially women, in grocery stores lol.
I've had sex sober a lot of times but never in a bad ass way where I just meet some girl at a grocery store or something like that and then leave with her. It's always girls I meet through friends and we just click, or with girls I meet online. I'm no where near the level of these coaches, even when I'm wasted and in funny happy outgoing mode, still I usually don't get laid but get a lot of attention, and make out and have a really fun night, but also have to deal with a lot of angry guys, pretty much every single guy that has the balls to say something will come and try to rain on my parade, but when I'm with my friends it never bothers me because my friends could rock someone badly. When I get laid from a bar it's almost exclusively when I go alone and is with a girl who is also alone, and is not the best looking girl. The hottest girls I get are from meetme . com. If I lived in a bigger city with more people and more women it would probably be a little more comfortable practicing cold approach pickup, but at this point in life it's not something I ever do. If I had a good friend that wanted to go out and practice cold approach pickup though I would. It would be really nice to be able to pull off some of this sh*t I see guys doing, maybe I should just balls up and at least start saying hi and introducing myself when I see a hottie, but in all honesty I probably won't lol. I don't really think you're missing anything if you have the balls to do cold approach, that's really all you probably need and if you keep doing it you'll just get better at it. Where I live there's not really anywhere that just has a ton of girls besides the mall, but I imagine having to spend like 5 hours talking to every girl I see just to get one where something might happen so I just never even try. I just get girls online, at bars, or through friends, or at parties. All my friends too, none of them would be a wingman, if anything they will co*k block and talk me down and try to steal the girls attention away from me. Total weasels, but I understand that they don't know or study anything I know and study/have studied so it doesn't bother me, but it does make me wish I had a friend to go out and practice with and meet a lot of girls, and hot girls know a lot of other hot girls, and hot girls hang with cool guys, so it would just make your sex life and social life just raise and be awesome.