So some of the links above came from therationalmale.com (recommended by a member here).
In the post here: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/th...e-reality/
Rolo talks about the Feminine Imperative, how all betas believe a lie that supports this.
I think I may have a breakthrough for my re-programming. You see, occasionally (and I think I mentioned this too) I get depressed. What I think about is something along the lines of:
-Being alone
-Wanting to get together with a woman (perhaps married)
-Other beta thoughts like this
These are the thoughts that SNAP me out of a good state- lets say after I have approached a woman (which is awesome), but nothing came of it (other than conquering that fear).
So I read this (Quoted from http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/th...e-reality/)
******
"Everything a man experiences, every social conditioning he receives from the earliest age, every accepted social norm and every expectation of him to qualify as the definition of a mature adult Man in contemporary society is designed to serve the female imperative. Moralist wallow in it, absolutists and defeated white knights existentially depend upon it, and even the better part of relativists still (often unwittingly) feed and serve the feminine purpose. In fact, so all encompassing is this reality that we define our masculinity in the terms of how well we can accommodate that feminne influence.
Our media celebrates it, and brooks no dissent. There is very little dissent, since to peel back the veneer is to be at odds with a reality defined by the female purpose. You feel lonely because you can’t understand it’s influence, and the conditioning you’ve been subjected to defines the objective solution to curing that feeling. You base the decisions of your future, your education, your career, your religious beliefs, even where you’ll choose to live, to better accomodate the feminine influence either in the present or in preparation of accommodating it in the future.
You get married, out of fear for not being found acceptable of it, or from social shame for not yet having accepted your role in service to the imperative. Your children are offered in tribute to it, while in turn you unknowingly perpetuate it in them. You pay tribute in alimony, in divorce proceedings, in the expected sacrifices your career demands to maintain its influence in your own life and in society at large. You exist to facilitate a feminine reality.
We can excuse it with moralisms, we can attach notions of honor and stability to it, we can even convince ourselves that the feminine imperative is OUR own imperative, but regardless, men still serve it."
******
I also remember many previous men (who were married and now divorced) saying they will never do that again. Including my father at some point.
[Wedding ring: The smallest handcuffs ever made]
As weird as it sounds, my thoughts have been well- what I considered stupid but none-the-less acceptable.
I now can see them as very harmful and any-time the crop up I will immediately re-frame and destroy them.
As I said in the last post, I bought 3 books. One happens to be the author of the above quotes. I plan on being that person who is re-programmed for the better. Conscious Competence.
-Leo
In the post here: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/th...e-reality/
Rolo talks about the Feminine Imperative, how all betas believe a lie that supports this.
I think I may have a breakthrough for my re-programming. You see, occasionally (and I think I mentioned this too) I get depressed. What I think about is something along the lines of:
-Being alone
-Wanting to get together with a woman (perhaps married)
-Other beta thoughts like this
These are the thoughts that SNAP me out of a good state- lets say after I have approached a woman (which is awesome), but nothing came of it (other than conquering that fear).
So I read this (Quoted from http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/th...e-reality/)
******
"Everything a man experiences, every social conditioning he receives from the earliest age, every accepted social norm and every expectation of him to qualify as the definition of a mature adult Man in contemporary society is designed to serve the female imperative. Moralist wallow in it, absolutists and defeated white knights existentially depend upon it, and even the better part of relativists still (often unwittingly) feed and serve the feminine purpose. In fact, so all encompassing is this reality that we define our masculinity in the terms of how well we can accommodate that feminne influence.
Our media celebrates it, and brooks no dissent. There is very little dissent, since to peel back the veneer is to be at odds with a reality defined by the female purpose. You feel lonely because you can’t understand it’s influence, and the conditioning you’ve been subjected to defines the objective solution to curing that feeling. You base the decisions of your future, your education, your career, your religious beliefs, even where you’ll choose to live, to better accomodate the feminine influence either in the present or in preparation of accommodating it in the future.
You get married, out of fear for not being found acceptable of it, or from social shame for not yet having accepted your role in service to the imperative. Your children are offered in tribute to it, while in turn you unknowingly perpetuate it in them. You pay tribute in alimony, in divorce proceedings, in the expected sacrifices your career demands to maintain its influence in your own life and in society at large. You exist to facilitate a feminine reality.
We can excuse it with moralisms, we can attach notions of honor and stability to it, we can even convince ourselves that the feminine imperative is OUR own imperative, but regardless, men still serve it."
******
I also remember many previous men (who were married and now divorced) saying they will never do that again. Including my father at some point.
[Wedding ring: The smallest handcuffs ever made]
As weird as it sounds, my thoughts have been well- what I considered stupid but none-the-less acceptable.
I now can see them as very harmful and any-time the crop up I will immediately re-frame and destroy them.
As I said in the last post, I bought 3 books. One happens to be the author of the above quotes. I plan on being that person who is re-programmed for the better. Conscious Competence.
-Leo
