Question for Shannon About AM/SM

[SargeMaximus]

Shannon, I do hope you're not indirectly accusing me with that statement, because it seems a bit misplaced. I've asked a fair question and you haven't answered, instead gone off after some pirating new-user.

I've been with you for a while and I think I deserve an answer to my inquiries. If you're really going to let those guys think they're getting away with something, then leave it alone and answer my question.

Firstly, I am not accusing you of anything. It wasn't you who made the remark about stealing from me and assuming selective resistance. Secondly, I was not aware that you were asking me that question. And thirdly, I deserve more respect than that. I am not anyone's dog to be commanded. If you want my help, you would be well advised to be polite in asking for it, instead of demanding it.

I apologize if I came across as disrespectful as you do, of course, deserve, and command, a lot of respect. Angry and frustrated is more how I felt. I thought you were aware that I was asking you, and were instead posting about "you guys" (the pirates). Which is also why I thought you were accusing me, which added to my frustration.

I'm glad you've clarified that, thank you. I, of course, do not intend to command you at all, just to get to the bottom of this.

Now that I understand that your question was directed at me, let's get on with it.

Let the shitstorm commence.

No, let's stay on topic.

What can I use to help myself with women/self acceptance in place of AM/SM?

First you have to understand the why of your issues with women. Do you understand them? What they are, where they came from, and how they affect you? Until you do, the only thing I can suggest is a general healing or improvement program, such as LTU, EPRHA or the new enhanced EPRHA that will be out soon, which takes into account sexual/emotional trauma and healing.

It is much more helpful to have more specific information on what your particular issues are and what underlies them.

Ok, that makes sense. To be honest, I don't know where to begin. I'm not needy, I know that. I hardly see women as worth my time except for sex. Maybe that's it? And then there's the social overtones such as small talk that I employ to get sex. Where I'd rather just be f*cking them, I "have" to do the whole small talk spiel, makes interacting with women after the intial approach a chore and tiresome.

Do you have any suggestions on how to figure out what my issues are? Especially since I have so little experience save for approaching. I'd really appreciate it.

I've heard of books like "Mode One" where the guy advocates being brutally honest with women, telling them flat out what he wants to do with/to them in the first few minutes (The author, Alan Roger Currie, also says he himself HATES small talk, so I know it's not just me) . I see this as perhaps my ultimate state of being. Yet there is tremendous fear/guilt/shame involved in that, and I can't see myself being that way without at least being able to defend myself physically lol.