04-13-2015, 05:11 AM
(04-13-2015, 04:51 AM)brightike Wrote: Thanks SargeMaximus, I actually almost exclusively approach during the day. Have for the past two years. Coffee shops, on transit, grocery stores I don't care. Still get anxiety like it's my first time a lot.
I have been in relationships for most of my life up until 3 years ago. I always a girl in the wings. I apparently (I say this because I don't completely see it) have a skewed reality when it comes to sex, women and me. My challenges before were Neediness, not many boundaries, putting girls on pedestals. Typical crap.
You're welcome.
You mention having a skewed reality yet you're doing quite well despite it. Any idea what it is you ARE doing or NOT doing that has made the difference?
I myself have no neediness, nor do I put girls on pedestals, but I can see I have no boundaries. How does that factor into women? (I'm trying to identify my sticking points because right now I don't see any, but they are there.)