04-06-2015, 07:57 AM
Afzal I think you're missing that you are turning women on by being a player. They are trying to SEEM like they oppose it, to see if you have shame about your sexual success (beta) but when it's clear you're a player they will be aroused. Hiding your player side from women is always the wrong thing to do in my opinion. You don't have to say "I'm a player" (although that often "works"), one thing I like to tell women is "I'm in romantic retirement." (Ich bin romantische rentner.. hmm I don't know if that is the same thing ) That tells them you're a player, but also COULD be romantic in the future at some point, and also that you're not bragging about sexual conquest. So it's a 3-in-one win.