04-04-2015, 01:39 PM
(04-04-2015, 12:31 PM)LeoistheSun Wrote: Im on the computer all the time. Its a work hazard. So the temptation is there
Do you work 24/7? No? Then try this:
Try to keep from jo for one week. You can look at porn, even masturbate, but NO ejaculation. Then, on the weekend, go to the mall and do the time drill (ask a hot girl for the time) but FEEL the attraction. Don't act on it, just feel. Begin expanding that internal comfort zone.
Once you get proficient with it, you'll begin to crave it I promise.
I still look at porn here and there for like 2 mins just to get a fix, but I actively avoid masturbation now. Not because I want to quit, but because I KNOW my sexual presence will be diminished, and interactions with people (especially women) will be far less fun.
It's like having a secret between the two of you. You feel the attraction, and she feels your attraction for her. The whole time you're both quiet, but it feels so good, honestly. That alone, for me, way better than jo to porn.
But like I said: try it, it may take a few weeks of trial and error, but you'll notice the difference. If you DON'T (for whatever reason) you can always go back to porn, it's not going anywhere. lol.
What have you got to lose?