Question about the Ego Balancing

[koshas]

I think I will read that book by AlphaRomeo, I may learn some stuff. But until now I didn't see anything new. The way he ""insulted"" this girl can be questionable. But then to me he didn't care about the girl which prove that he kept the control. To me his "angers" was legitimate because she was trying to manipulate him, he didn't like that so he acted like that. At this point he could have gone back on his words and fu* her. That is truly someone who choose who he really want to spend time with. No neediness on his part, his word are trustworthy, he really do what he tells unlike her who is playing game.

While it can also be a good idea to play the game, "not reacting", I also like what he did. He did it from a standpoint that to him woman are human like man, so he treats them like other humans. If they disrespect him then he get mad like he would do with a man. That is 2 way of seeing things, both can work. To me though I don't think there are a lot of guys who would have refused to see her again. It demonstrate someone who is genuinely confident, and can decide to remove woman from his friend list if he feels like it.

This thread have gone wild for no reason. Why all this reacting. Did we need that? Can we talk without getting upset like that. I should have use less provocative words but I didn't have time to explain myself. I thought it wouldn't have gone this far. I was wrong. It proves that we have still a lot to learn.

"Misogyny" "Afzal's rape comment" Can we stop altering reality please!

Afzal keep your story for yourself next time, this forum is not ready to listen.

Yes, I highly recommend Dr.Paul´s programs (most of them are dvd home study programs from his seminars but he has written books too), especially Mature Masculine Power and Omega Male Program. I am sure you will learn new stuff from him (I know I did) . You get some critical information from him that pretty much all the "pua teachers" don´t know. He is a psychologist who has contributed a lot to his field + he is also bit older than vast majority of "pua teachers" so you will get highly developed and mature view on topics like social interaction, male-female dynamics, role of each brain (reptilian, limpic (mammalian) and neo/cerebral cortex) in several aspects of life (career, dating, love, friendships etc.), etc.

His mind os program is good also.