Question about the Ego Balancing

[AlphaRomeo]

If more guys were like afzalg and refuse to put up with such shit, women would have an incentive to improve their behaviour and we would have less b*tches in this world.

He didn't just "pass her test" he showed her she is not living up to his standards in the same turn. Maybe she now has a little more respect to the next guy she meets and doesn't feel entitled to babble whatever stupid sh*t she wants to without thinking beforehand.

AfzalG's improving the world one woman at a time.

No. By getting sucked into HER negative frame and getting stuck into insult-war? At that moment, his standard was exactly the same as that girl. Even if he has generally/most of the time higher standards. If he had higher standards AT THAT MOMENT he would have either a)Ignored her comments, as if hearing such comments are so foreign to him that they are completely out of his reality ("passing the test") b) changed the subject ("passing the test") or c)just walk away (deciding she is not worth of his time wast) . Insulting back is getting sucked into HER reality, not controlling yours. HER reality was STRONGER at that time, unless of course, his normal every day reality contains insulting others, men or women. If you are totally indifferent to insults, change the subject or walk away THEN you are "improving the world one woman at a time."

Let´s make a hypothetical addition to the situation: If there were the HIGHEST quality woman observing the conversation (not that they have time for that) , the second he insulted back that woman lost her interest (if there were any in the first place). Why? For one, because she just observed that he had such a weak sense of reality ( in that moment, I dont know AlfalG so I don´t know how he is in general/every day in that sense) Highest quality man would not get sucked into HER reality like that.

yeah its real and its childish ... and yeah it made me mad....

GlaizenGold, stratos, alpha and athanas i am glad you understand my point its always interesting for me how more developed guys understand what an other alpha wants to say while at the same time a less developed guy misinterpret the same post and find it "cocky, vulgar, childisch or what ever ..."

anyway wish all of you guys a good time

So in the earlier post you admit that getting stuck into her negative frame (name calling, insulting etc.) was childish and made you mad...but now it was just a "misinterpretation by less developed guys"?

You say something along the lines "most guys has a misconception about alpha and pua..." Do you know the real reason why pua community begin in the first place? Picking up women is just a surface. The real reason is much deeper and the reason why so many men are so confused in that scene. Do you know why the highest quality women are repulsed by "alpha male"? (they don´t want beta either...but something more than alpha) If you are interested you can find answer to both of those questions by studying Dr.Paul (Mature Masculine Power and Omega Male Program). Tho most self-proclaimed alphas find it too much of an intellectual stretch (hint; and that is where you find the Omega that is so attractive to the hottest women. Men tend to think mostly with their reptilian brain (instincts, in this context) when meeting a women in the first place. Women are engaged with all three brains; reptilian (instincts, in this context), limbic system (emotions, in this context) and neocortex ("higher self", character, "Observing ego") in this context). Highest quality women filters men beyond the alpha level (which is where the teachings of almost all the "pua gurus" fails).
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Like you said; anyway wish all of you guys a good time