03-31-2015, 08:02 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-31-2015, 08:17 PM by AlphaRomeo.)
Is this conversation even real...?
I know women puts up all kinds of tests but in my opinion this one is just childish talk (from both parties) Even the first 5 lines
"I was very interested in you in the first place but then I realized you have a problem with your ego.
Me: What do you mean by this?
Her: Yeah I mean by this that there is something strange about you, you seem to be a very sick man.
Me: What are you talking, you are sick and you are a h***
Her: No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person."
was too much for me to read and it even got worse from there. Who talks/acts like that? Maybe I am just weird for refusing to play any part of drama like that, but I would dump her after her second comment, if not sooner. I certainly would not answer back with anything along of lines "What are you talking, you are sick and you are a h***" (getting sucked into her frame) but instead would either ignore the comment and move on to next topic or just leave because being called sick etc is just bad taste. In fact, I would not be interested in any woman, no matter how "hot", in the first place if we can not be just honest with each others and be genuinely interested to know each others better and be attracted to each others. Being flirty and playful is one thing, talking in a way like...I don´t even have word for this...is another.
And " No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person."...what is this, if she did not want to meet then why did she?
- "To test.." would be the common answer. Maybe "conversations" like that that are common in certain countries, age group or whatever...but I just can´t understand that kind of "test". Test for what? To test and see if you have a time to waste for childish games like that. (because if you don´t, you are too mature for the other party) Who has time for that? I know I don´t.
There are tons of great women (smart,hot,sexy,genuine etc.) who don´t feel need to play stupid games like that but instead they CRAVE, pray, they are HUNGRY for REAL emotions, real deep and meaningful connections with a man who are authentic, open and honest, who is passionate about life and who find his happiness from life instead of hoping the woman to provide it for him. Ladies, tell me if I´m wrong but from what I gather women wants mainly four things from men in relationship. (not in particular order here):
- She needs to feel special and appreciated
- Deep emotional communication and affection with her man
- To feel feminine, beuatiful and sexy
- Hot, passionate sex
and to have some fun, but she does not need necessarily man for fun. Now, I said in relationship...but in my opinion if dating is somewhere along the lines of "No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person." then you can forget all the rest too. Maybe I´m old fashioned, but I want real, meaningful connections...be it in dating or in relationship. Yes, one can have sex too without taking it too seriously...but I doubt it would be that good with someone like her.
I know women puts up all kinds of tests but in my opinion this one is just childish talk (from both parties) Even the first 5 lines
"I was very interested in you in the first place but then I realized you have a problem with your ego.
Me: What do you mean by this?
Her: Yeah I mean by this that there is something strange about you, you seem to be a very sick man.
Me: What are you talking, you are sick and you are a h***
Her: No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person."
was too much for me to read and it even got worse from there. Who talks/acts like that? Maybe I am just weird for refusing to play any part of drama like that, but I would dump her after her second comment, if not sooner. I certainly would not answer back with anything along of lines "What are you talking, you are sick and you are a h***" (getting sucked into her frame) but instead would either ignore the comment and move on to next topic or just leave because being called sick etc is just bad taste. In fact, I would not be interested in any woman, no matter how "hot", in the first place if we can not be just honest with each others and be genuinely interested to know each others better and be attracted to each others. Being flirty and playful is one thing, talking in a way like...I don´t even have word for this...is another.
And " No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person."...what is this, if she did not want to meet then why did she?
- "To test.." would be the common answer. Maybe "conversations" like that that are common in certain countries, age group or whatever...but I just can´t understand that kind of "test". Test for what? To test and see if you have a time to waste for childish games like that. (because if you don´t, you are too mature for the other party) Who has time for that? I know I don´t.
There are tons of great women (smart,hot,sexy,genuine etc.) who don´t feel need to play stupid games like that but instead they CRAVE, pray, they are HUNGRY for REAL emotions, real deep and meaningful connections with a man who are authentic, open and honest, who is passionate about life and who find his happiness from life instead of hoping the woman to provide it for him. Ladies, tell me if I´m wrong but from what I gather women wants mainly four things from men in relationship. (not in particular order here):
- She needs to feel special and appreciated
- Deep emotional communication and affection with her man
- To feel feminine, beuatiful and sexy
- Hot, passionate sex
and to have some fun, but she does not need necessarily man for fun. Now, I said in relationship...but in my opinion if dating is somewhere along the lines of "No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person." then you can forget all the rest too. Maybe I´m old fashioned, but I want real, meaningful connections...be it in dating or in relationship. Yes, one can have sex too without taking it too seriously...but I doubt it would be that good with someone like her.
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