03-31-2015, 02:14 PM
(03-31-2015, 01:04 PM)Womanizer Wrote:(03-31-2015, 10:18 AM)AfzalG Wrote: Today I had an conversation with a B*** who flaked on me:
Her: I was very interested in you in the first place but then I realized you have a problem with your ego.
Me: What do you mean by this?
Her: Yeah I mean by this that there is something strange about you, you seem to be a very sick man.
Me: What are you talking, you are sick and you are a h***
Her: No I just didn´t want to meet you because you are a p**** you are not a good person.
Me: Oh I am a p**** I understand, and cool that you know alle this about me after seeing me the 2 time.
Her: I am good in reading poeple.
Me: No you are just good in giving ass and nothing more. Do you really think the opinion of one women is important for me? I have enough women telling me what a great man I am so don´t give a f*** about your opinion.
Her: What do you want to proove me?
Me: Nothing just saying that I don´t give a f **** about women like you.
Her: Okay like I said I am not interested in you.
Me: Me either I don´t want to get std from you or have to put on two condoms at the same time.
Her: Okay so f*** off I wish you a good life.
Me: And I wish that you will get raped and thrown in a big shit hole.
Her: Even then you wont be the one who raped me
Me: I don´t care bye.
Her: Wait let it forget it and meet up another time?
Me: No you insulted me. You are not longer attractive to me.
Her: Ahh ey sry forget it. Come on.
Me: No you had your chance.
Her: I dont have much time decide do you want to try it or no?
Me: No bye...
Her: Okay bye...
My last girlfriend for example told me, at the begining that I am not a real man, until I opened the door for her to leave...
After 5 months of relationship she told me that she has more respect to me than to her father.
Is it possible that the ego balancing is misconcepted by women as humility and therefore weakens the programs overall effectivness?
I experience the same as many other user here the attraction is very high at the begining an leaves you off very low....
Any comments or thoughts on this are welcome....
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2. Question is it possible that with your subs you become "too good" "too much of a man" for the most women, more than the average woman can handle? I mean you cant expect that the game depends to 100% on you women also try to act cool and alpha , and it may scare them away like my sister says, "afzal i would never want to have a man like you you are too overpowered many girls want a weaker guy they can control to some degree and influence". And this may be true see many hot girls with total betas or wusses or man wit 10% alphaness and 90% wussness. So might it be a false believe that women only like tough alpha guys? Many girls tell me I look like a macho or a even some think I am a PIMP....
She was testing you and you stood up for yourself , you passed half of it but not fully . She wanted you but you became mad at her. She flaked on you soo , why do you care so much? Isn't there other woman out there. Ego balancing is good because at let's the self which is the real you see the world for what it truly is , the ego is that negative voice in your head which is not you. You should Google humility and the ego and learn more about it I know I am here shortly.
Women are afraid of a man whom they can't manipulate or control , because that's survival related I'm guessing. Women like a strong man who can protect them and take care of em. Notice how BEEHAWK22 mentions about resources. She only sees him as a cash cow and now that he is withdrawing that he's losing value. Why? Because she has a need to be taking care of , and a man being financially steady can give her that. But from the little information she's given me he doesn't seem to have any other good qualities except his ability to bring home a big paycheck and that doesn't seem to be enough. Summarizing here woman want a man with principles that won't sell out and that doesn't really need her but wants her and that has more great qualities then just making the big bucks.
Womanizer, I like your response. But you don't know the whole story. How can you? You can't read my mind or heart. Basically, I initially loved this man but he turned out to be a 100% pathological liar and a cheater. I think it stemmed from his 4" d***. He always had to find that one woman who would love him just for him. But then he would cheat and lie. And no woman will put up with that after awhile. So I eventually I negated him to nothing more than a financial provider. I haven't been with him for over a month, and I don't if I ever will again, because I just can't bring myself to touch him. Since using the subs my perception has changed from needing love and support from a man to loving myself and being thankful for what I do have.