This stage is flying by, and it's been the most exciting in terms of results. It's so liberating to have confidence. It's not as high as I want it to be, and it's not 'unshakeable' but it's stronger and more consistent than I've ever known.
Another thing I've noticed is how living in the present has improved my quality of life. It was only recently that I even realized I was no longer dwelling in the past, which is a testament to The Naturalizer since it wasn't long ago that I was stifled by regret. Only now do I realized how crippling it was and just how much that negativity permeated my existence.
The meat of this post has to do with what I chalk up to some combination of Alpha appeal and the aspects of SM3 present in AM6. Here's what's happened in the past few days:
Manager at a bar told my friend (whom she knows) that she thinks I'm cute and isn't usually into white guys. Got her number last time and we've been flirting. Will probably lead to sex.
I expressed my interest to a waitress at a bar with zero anxiety. Here's how:
Me: Two things.
Her: Ok.
Me: I need a beer for my friend [whose birthday it was].
Her: You said two things. What's the other?
Me: You're cute.
Her: Thanks. You too.
I was surprised at myself after the fact for the creativity, confident delivery, and boldness. I have never done that before. At the end of the night I asked her to write her number on the receipt and she said that she would if she didn't have a boyfriend. I don't know if she actually had a boyfriend, because in retrospect I could have spent more time establishing a rapport, but it doesn't matter.
Girl who works at the tea place I always go to whom I've chatted with here and there volunteered her phone number to me and wants to hang out.
Asked girl who helped me at a clothing store (and talked openly about sex) for her number, which she gave me. Texts are sexually charged and there's no doubt what's going to happen the next time we get together.
Girl at a different clothing store treated me like I was Justin Bieber and she was a teeny bopper. Utter reverence. Failed to give me her name twice and instead blushed, giggled, and walked away. Endless compliments, blatantly groped my ass (was trying jeans) and took every opportunity to touch me while 'explaining' what looked good on me. She also tried to get in the change room with me. She was loud, weird, and batshit crazy. This has never happened to me before. Eventually she got on my nerves and I had to be straight with her, but hey it felt kind of good inside to have that attention. Did I mention she was crazy? Even if she was 10x hotter, I would not touch that.
There are earlier examples I won't go into detail about and they involve meeting attractive women and simply chatting. It's easier for me to meet and converse with babes. For the most part, nerves are no longer enough to discourage action and failure is acceptable. Rather try and fail than regret. It's a win-win situation really.
More to come.
Another thing I've noticed is how living in the present has improved my quality of life. It was only recently that I even realized I was no longer dwelling in the past, which is a testament to The Naturalizer since it wasn't long ago that I was stifled by regret. Only now do I realized how crippling it was and just how much that negativity permeated my existence.
The meat of this post has to do with what I chalk up to some combination of Alpha appeal and the aspects of SM3 present in AM6. Here's what's happened in the past few days:
Manager at a bar told my friend (whom she knows) that she thinks I'm cute and isn't usually into white guys. Got her number last time and we've been flirting. Will probably lead to sex.
I expressed my interest to a waitress at a bar with zero anxiety. Here's how:
Me: Two things.
Her: Ok.
Me: I need a beer for my friend [whose birthday it was].
Her: You said two things. What's the other?
Me: You're cute.
Her: Thanks. You too.
I was surprised at myself after the fact for the creativity, confident delivery, and boldness. I have never done that before. At the end of the night I asked her to write her number on the receipt and she said that she would if she didn't have a boyfriend. I don't know if she actually had a boyfriend, because in retrospect I could have spent more time establishing a rapport, but it doesn't matter.
Girl who works at the tea place I always go to whom I've chatted with here and there volunteered her phone number to me and wants to hang out.
Asked girl who helped me at a clothing store (and talked openly about sex) for her number, which she gave me. Texts are sexually charged and there's no doubt what's going to happen the next time we get together.
Girl at a different clothing store treated me like I was Justin Bieber and she was a teeny bopper. Utter reverence. Failed to give me her name twice and instead blushed, giggled, and walked away. Endless compliments, blatantly groped my ass (was trying jeans) and took every opportunity to touch me while 'explaining' what looked good on me. She also tried to get in the change room with me. She was loud, weird, and batshit crazy. This has never happened to me before. Eventually she got on my nerves and I had to be straight with her, but hey it felt kind of good inside to have that attention. Did I mention she was crazy? Even if she was 10x hotter, I would not touch that.
There are earlier examples I won't go into detail about and they involve meeting attractive women and simply chatting. It's easier for me to meet and converse with babes. For the most part, nerves are no longer enough to discourage action and failure is acceptable. Rather try and fail than regret. It's a win-win situation really.
More to come.
