03-08-2015, 10:28 PM
Ok cool, here it is copied from my text document.. the posts are broken up with the lines.
Quote:You're very responsive, and that's a good thing. You're also seeing what happens when you drag someone to their feet and beef them up quickly: there's some turbulence, and you have resistance sometimes. It's a testament to how powerful the program (and SlipStream) really are that you are only experiencing these resistances every so often, and only for a little while. In the beginning of AM, back in Version 1-2-3, it was really rough. I went through weeks and months of it at a time sometimes. I wish I was able to have simply purchased V6 instead of having to develop it.
The threatening stares by strangers, by the way? That's happening because you're displaying two things that upset them. First, you're displaying some traits that are very alpha. AM6 is designed to produce Transcendent Alpha, remember. The Transcendent Alpha is threatening to all the non-Transcendent Alphas because he does not conform to their power structure, or follow, or fall into line and has no need to challenge and perform the typical chest beating routine to assert his dominance. So he basically is just walking past the line of guys all trying to be alpha, all challenging eachother for position in line, and walking to and past the guy at the head of the line. That's very upsetting for those guys because it's behavior that calls into question their real level of dominance, power, alphaness and control. You don't even see that you're doing it yet, because it's in your attitude and body language.
The second thing I'd bet you're doing is displaying contradictory signals. You're not "there" yet, so the TA signals are there, but not consistent. This will really piss off the "Alphas" because they are being challenged (in their minds) by a guy who doesn't even know he's doing it, and isn't "really" alpha.
In most cases I encounter after having become more solid in my alphaness, these guys are not threatened by me so much anymore because I am consistent, and because I could not give a flying rat's patoot about challenging their social ranking as it is. Do. Not. Care. I'm just there to observe and enjoy, and when they see that, they tend to calm down and carry about their business. Occasionally a more evolved one will start befriending me, trying to figure me out.
Enjoying your journal. :-)
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AM6 heavily incorporates EHPRA in every stage. That means that one of the most important things it's going to do is get you to heal and release emotional damage and scars.
Everyone is going to handle this process differently. I cannot know how you will grieve, heal and move on; but just know that it is part of the process, and the outward display of "obsession" points to an inward fear of letting her go. Its a form of resistance to what the program is telling you to do: heal, let go of the past, outgrow previous limitations and become self sufficient and self sustaining.
The solution? Use the program according to the directions. Just keep going.
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EPRHA is in every stage of AM6, and it's going to get you to strip yourself down to your core and heal and clear everything along the way. Killing shame is one step. The layer of shame that kept you from emotional eating is probably gone now, and so you're emotional eating. Next comes the reasons you were emotional eating.
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Stages 1 through 6 are woven out of the Master Key Script so that you get the whole thing in steps that you can take to get from starting out to handling everything there is to experience in the script. Stage 7 is the Master Key Script in its entirety.
If it were possible to just do Stage 7, I would have only made and offered Stage 7, because it would save me weeks and months of time and pain to build, and it would be cheaper and sell better probably. But, subs at this level of intensity need to be worked up to. So once you have gone through Stages 1 through 6, you have two options: you can re-run the whole six stages, or you can run Stage 7. Both are valid options. But one is better than the other depending on what you experience during the journey and where you are at the end of it.
It is better to rerun the six stages again if you have not come through the other end feeling like you've achieved the goals of the program yet, or if any stage gave you a lot of problems. This is true because the script of Stage 7 is so much heavier and more complex. Let's say you had a lot of resistance during Stage 3, and you feel like it never went away by the time you finished that stage. Do you think you're going to do better by focusing on re-running the stages and focusing yourself, or by running Stage 7 and having that plus everything else bombarding you all at once? Obviously, focus is better.
But once you have been through the stages enough times that they're not being resisted and you feel they are ether generating growth freely or you are not growing anymore because you're there, and you come out the other end feeling like you've pretty much achieved the program's goals, then Stage 7 by itself will be a better choice because you are ready to handle the intermix of all six stages at once. It won't overwhelm, it won't distract from growth.
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Depression is often a result of the subconscious wanting to resist the program, but realizing that it cannot... feeling unable to avoid that change that scares it... and responding with depression (feelings of hopelessness to avoid a fear). Until the change is made, at which time it disappears and is replaced by new positive programming. It is also possible that you are confronting and dealing with feelings of hopelessness in other directions based on other things, usually strongly ingrained faulty thinking and beliefs.
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My definition of an alpha male came from research I did over the course of months while building the first version of the Alpha Male Training Set in 2006, and each upgrade thereafter, plus the suggestions made here for those upgrades, and my own experience of the most successful examples of masculinity and leadership I have encountered.
It boils down, for me, to a truly strong, solid, self actualized, self validating, self supporting and self empowered, emotionally healthy man who lives by his own rules and takes what he wants from life by making it happen, all the while understanding his innate responsibilities to himself and others as the natural leader that he is.
To this end, I took the best of all of what I found and put it in one program. Some of it came from books, some from Internet articles, some from friends, some from men I admire and respect, some from interviews with women, some from interviews with men, some from what I observed from first hand experience in life.
You may note that when one says "alpha male", there is need to define your terms. Everyone seems to have a different definition of what an alpha male is. My definition, or as simplistically close as I can get without referring you to the ad page for the program, is above.
The Alpha Male program is based on the understanding that every male has the potential within him to be what his genetic heritage is pushing him to be, which is a leader. This is true because in the wild, only the strongest mate and every gene wants to reproduce. We as humans are still very much driven by our genetics and our subconscious, which is why we are one of the most sex-obsessed species on the planet.
This potential is innate in us all, but there are often issues which develop through no fault of our own as we grow up which conspire to set us on the path to something less than our fullest potential. We are frequently taught by experience, society, and other control mechanisms etc. to surrender, instead of be what our genes are telling us to be.
The result is weakness compared to our true potential. There will always be a power struggle, and there will always be a pyramid of power, because shy of the self sufficient, self validating, self supporting man, alpha will always want to be the best. There can be only one best, and so the inevitable result is a constant series of challenges to one's immediate superior in the social strata.
The type of alpha who relies on the acknowledgement of others is limited, however. He can only remain on top for so long before he begins to weaken and is eventually replaced. This constant challenging and replacement of course means that at all times, this type of alpha is always going to be the strongest in the group.
The other type of alpha, however, does not rely on the group for his ranking. He is independent of, and above the group for his self image, happiness and privilege. He does not weaken and get replaced over time, because he is not constantly spending his energy in a battle for supremacy. He has transcended the limitations of that system, and now relies on only himself for his status, etc. While the group may not acknowledge him initially, he will be seen as the greatest threat to the current alpha of the group once he is recognized because he does not acknowledge that alpha's position and authority as being a limiting factor for himself. And because of this, the power structure does not hold him in place, restrict him, control him. He is his own man, and independent of the power structures of the groups through which he passes.
This second type of alpha is the higher form of alpha. The more subtle form of alpha. The more alpha form of alpha. He may not be the six foot four hundred-pounds-of-muscle alpha-by-raw-force, but he is a leader regardless, and others will naturally follow him out of admiration and respect because of what and who he is. The key difference here is that the group-dominant alpha leads more out of fear based respect, than the admiration based respect of the "ascendant alpha". The ascendant alpha is a master of himself first and foremost. Others follow him not because he demands it, forces it, or threatens them if they don't, but because he displays the highest, truest form of leadership and masculinity: independence and self mastery.
Everyone has the potential for this within them. My Alpha Male training program is not changing your personality; it is shifting your thinking and beliefs such that you naturally achieve your higher potentials in this direction. You are doing whatever changes are happening; the program is just showing you which directions to focus in in order to do so. But the end result is not a different person, or a different personality: it is the temperance of and refinement of the original one into a higher, truer expression of its own potential, which was always there.
When you compare an expertly crafted sword made of steel, to the lump of iron ore and coal that were it's original forms, you can see what I mean. Iron ore is ugly and useless unless it is smelted to remove the impurities. Heat is applied to force them to separate, and the result is relatively pure molten iron and "slag", which is the impurities, which are discarded. Then the coal is added to the iron and you get molten steel. But the core elements are still iron and carbon, are they not?
Then you pour the molten steel into ingot molds and let them cool. They have changed form again, but they are still iron and carbon. And when that ingot cools sufficiently, the blacksmith forges it into a new shape and level of strength through a cycle of heating pressure and cooling. Changes, each one, but the elements in play are still iron and carbon.
The end result is a fine sword which can be used to do many things, from develop one's skills to defending oneself. One might pay pennies for a pile of iron ore and coal, but that sword can command as much as tens of thousands of dollars. It has remained the same elemental essence, but it's value has increased beyond measure because it is stronger, purer, more effective and more versatile. So too the transcendant alpha.
My Alpha Male subliminal training set is like that. It takes the raw form, purifies it, blends it, strengthens it, forges it and returns a much higher value, stronger and more versatile result. It may take more than one cycle of use to finish it's goal, but it does achieve that goal, and the elements are not different, but they are purified, strengthened, shaped and made into their higher potential.
I believe that one of the biggest challenges society faces today is the reverse, which is the desire for the lump of coal and iron ore to say... "Ouch, that looks like work, I will just avoid that by accepting myself as I am and consider that good enough."
This is called a cop out. An excuse. An evasion. And it is inherently beta behavior. It shows weakness, unwillingness to improve oneself, because one is not in control of themselves. This is one of the biggest excuses that you hear through the United States. "Accept me as I am! I am just fine as I am, even if I'm a lazy slob who does nothing, weighs a ton, and contributes nothing to society and my fellow man! But accept me as I am, because then I don't have to face my fear of change, pain, take-your-pick." The rallying cry of the weak.
Self acceptance is a good thing, but it must be coupled with refusal to settle for anything less than constant self improvement, or it becomes an excuse to stagnate and hide from one's fears, responsibilities and life. That happens far too often these days.
The natural path of a leader is to accept himself as he is, assess his weaknesses, and do what he needs to do to strengthen, refine, reshape, improve and master himself. Even if it's scary. Even if it's not always pleasant. Because he knows that it is his responsibility to himself and those he leads to do so. The highest form of alpha is the alpha who refuses to settle for "good enough".
So while I agree with you, I think we have some different definitions. Instead of being what others tell you to be (I believe this is what you mean by change, and this is a very beta behavior, born in insecurity), I am talking about taking what and who you already are and making it into it's highest positive potential. That's the goal of Alpha male. And that seems to be what you are saying as well.
Subliminals work by introducing ideas to your subconscious mind until it accepts them as true. Once it begins accepting them as true, it begins acting on them as being true, and they become true. The truth of these new ideas was always there, but the action of acting on them as truth was not. So the change is not being made by the subs, but by the listener, and the change is not becoming X, but accepting X as true and by doing so, acting on it's truth to manifest it. The truth was always there, but the action made it come forth into expression.
Everything the program is designed to do, you can therefore manifest as true by acceptance, action on that acceptance, and thus creating the resulting expression of that truth. The acceptance, the action, the allowing, is always within you, and always your own choice; the subiminal does nothing more than present new ideas.
When I was younger, I was dealing with a lot of negativity. I was (and still am) physically the smallest framed person in my family. I developed crossed eyes when I was around 3 to 5 years old. I have an exceptionally high IQ. I had dyslexia and became extremely nearsighted. And I am covered in freckles. All these things made me different, and targets of ridicule. Negativity from those around me who chose to tear me down because I was different.
I was told I was a wierdo. A freak. A loser. Weak, worthless, useless, incompetent. My third grade teacher told my mother I was retarded. If my mother hadn't stood up for me (she was a special ed teacher, so she knew well the difference between exceptionally high and low IQ), got me the therapy to overcome the dyslexia, got me glasses and surgery to correct my crossed eyes, and then forced me to keep going with my education until I actually learned how to read, learned how to multiply, learned how to do all the things I initially couldn't do because of one or more of these challenges or what someone told me that I accepted as true, I would surely have ended up dead of a drug overdose long ago.
And the adversity didn't end there. Even after that, my family (and sometimes my own mother) was tearing me down constantly. Hammering the loser, useless, clueless, helpless, worthless.
And yet, here I am. I am the foremost producer of the most powerful and advanced subliminals in the world, as far as I can tell. I am succeeding in a business that I was laughed at and ridiculed for. The people who ridiculed me, now envy me. They see me waking up when I want to, working when I want to, playing when I want to, eating what I want, where I want, with whom I want, spending money they don't have, or don't have to spend as they please. They realize now that I am capable of doing anything I choose to do. And I choose to succeed.
What's the difference between the me now, and the pathetic wretch who started this journey?
It all comes down to the changes I have had in what I believe. Those changes in belief led to changes in action and reaction, which led to changes in everything else. But I am still the same person! What is here typing this, is still Shannon. The same Shannon who experienced all those things, which is why I remember them. But I am a purer, stronger, more versatile and more refined version of him. I am an example of his higher potential, and I am becoming a higher potential still.
The subs don't change you. They only present you with ideas. Once you accept those ideas as true, you act on them as true, and their truth becomes manifest. But it was always there, or else it could not become manifest!
I, as I am now, have always been within "Shannon", regardless of what age you look at. When I was 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35... all of those "me's" had this potential, and I as I am now have the potential of that multi-millionaire I am becoming, and the billionaire I am becoming, and the discoverer, and the father and maybe husband, and everything else I will go on to become and express. It's all here now... just latent and unmanifest. The difference between me now and me then is what we believe, what we have therefore done, and what we have manifested as true.
Did the subliminals do that? No. They presented me with ideas. I did the rest.
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Emotional eating is almost always triggered by fear, guilt, shame, insecurity (fear of not being good enough), jealousy (fear of not being good enough), embarassment (fear of being too vulnerable and judged)... shame to stop doing that is like trying to put out a fire with gasoline. It just deepens the toxicity of the whole.
EPRHA is in every stage of AM6, and it's going to get you to strip yourself down to your core and heal and clear everything along the way. Killing shame is one step. The layer of shame that kept you from emotional eating is probably gone now, and so you're emotional eating. Next comes the reasons you were emotional eating.
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If you feel like you're losing your identity when you're seeing your GSF dissolve... you have a wonderful thing indeed! That means your self identity has been largely based on those negative emotions, and as they dissolve, the whole world becomes your oyster!
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Sometimes, when the old self realizes what is going on, it makes some desperate efforts to reassert itself. When this happens, it usually means it's either dying, or almost dead. Just keep going.
If you get this response this late in the game, though, I recommend another run-through.
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Your resistance may be associated with your belief that your "beta self is dying". The fact is, your "beta self" is not "dying", it is being transformed. The transformation does not need to trigger a subconscious fear of death, as the "beta self dying" idea may have been doing. You're not dying, any part of you. You're on a highly accelerated growth path. Same you, just at a higher level of potential being experienced and expressed.
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Keep in mind that on top of frequently it being true that AM requires a total of 2-3 run-throughs total to get full benefits from it, it also needs time after you finish to "set". That's why we recommend taking a little time off between subs, especially the big ones. Rome wasn't built in a day. The Titanic didn't turn on a dime.
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You will want to take some time off the AM6 sub when you finish. This will allow you to begin experiencing the effects a bit better, because what you're very likely resisting is "being told what to do". When the sub stops, you're not "being told what to do" anymore, and whatever has taken hold begins to become your natural expression, if it is not already.
If you're in that less than 1% of super hardcore control freaks, the only thing I can suggest is to use it again and again until it take hold. I recommend you take 2-4 weeks off after using it, and then run it again. This time, though, you might benefit from using it a little less per day; 12 hours is fine. Again back to that "being told what to do" thing.
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(On AM6 attracting women) -
The addition of secondary influences like that one is later in the program. Usually stages 4 or 5. That's for after the major work of the primary goal of the program has been done, and we can start adding in stuff that's not primary focus. AM is about becoming self sufficient, self controlled, self aware, self reliant, stronger, healthier, better leader, free from fear, more successful, more focused through his center, more stable, more confident, more decisive, more capable, etc. Women are attracted to men like this, but adding in focus to that in the program needs to be a secondary consideration, so it's for later. I don't remember specifically which stage it starts in, but it would be 4 or 5.
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007, I would like to better understand your experience with AM6. You're saying it did not make you alpha, but what is your definition of alpha? And, what did you notice it did while you were using it? Anything at all? Was there any outward indication of resistance?
Because if you used the whole program and got absolutely nothing from it, there are only two possible explanations I can think of:
You weren't actually listening to it (zero volume, bad speakers, something like this) or
You completely and totally stonewalled it.
And if you managed to stonewall AM6 that well, I need to shake your hand, my friend, because you are incredible.
There is only one way to stonewall this program that well. You have to be positively drowning in fear at a subconscious, if not conscious level. And, you have to have an extraordinarily rare, and strong, personality type.
Since you've already been refunded, there is no issue with that, but I suggest that you consider doing one of the following two things.
What I would do is run EHPRA for at least 32 days straight and see if you get anything at all from that. Anything that tells you something is happening. If it is, then keep running EHPRA until you feel like it's finished making changes, or you hit the 6 month mark, and then run AM6 again.
Or, you can just run AM6 again.
I like the idea of using a more specific sub to see if it's just that program you're resisting, and EHPRA is a great choice because it will help you clear the way to making AM6 work.
You could also consider something like Life Tune-Up, although that's not free like EHPRA is.
I don't recommend you try SM until you've gotten results from AM6.
