Instead of going into detail about what I've been struggling with—which is the same shit I've written about before—I'm going to share some conclusions that I've drawn:
i.
Low confidence is the root of all my problems.
I don't feel the need to elaborate on this other than to say that it originates from being significantly overweight through childhood and into adolescence.
That got me thinking about the most effective way to tackle the issue with subs. Do you use ASC to address confidence as a whole or do you tackle the individual-specific components which comprise low confidence?
To the latter, I'm doing AM because I wanted to address a broader scope of issues, and my confidence has certainly improved along the way. AM includes ASC in each stage, but I've read over and over again about the potency of subs that have a singular focus.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Clearly Shannon has offered both options.
ii.
Success with women is #1.
I discovered sub-shop and sub-talk through a google-binge to improve my 'game' and become a manwhore. I wanted to jump into Sex Magnet but the prerequisite for Alpha Male—and reading through its description—helped me to see things in my life that I knew needed fixing (and priority) but hadn't articulated. Initially, I thought of AM as a stepping stone to SM, now I appreciate it in it's own right.
The case remains however, that there is a hole in my life. I've missed out on at least a decade of sex because I let my inhibitions overpower my desire—and it's been painful. AM is helping me to dwell less on the past and be alpha in the present, but I've still only slept with one woman and not had sex in 2 years.
I want to have sexual relationships with attractive women. I want the social skills and a social life that is conducive to this. I want to f*&k like a jackrabbit and have the confidence knowing I can deliver sexually. I want to have multiple partners and plenty of options. I want quality AND quantity.
This desire permeates my thoughts.
P.S. Low-confidence may be a big part of why I cum fast.
i.
Low confidence is the root of all my problems.
I don't feel the need to elaborate on this other than to say that it originates from being significantly overweight through childhood and into adolescence.
That got me thinking about the most effective way to tackle the issue with subs. Do you use ASC to address confidence as a whole or do you tackle the individual-specific components which comprise low confidence?
To the latter, I'm doing AM because I wanted to address a broader scope of issues, and my confidence has certainly improved along the way. AM includes ASC in each stage, but I've read over and over again about the potency of subs that have a singular focus.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Clearly Shannon has offered both options.
ii.
Success with women is #1.
I discovered sub-shop and sub-talk through a google-binge to improve my 'game' and become a manwhore. I wanted to jump into Sex Magnet but the prerequisite for Alpha Male—and reading through its description—helped me to see things in my life that I knew needed fixing (and priority) but hadn't articulated. Initially, I thought of AM as a stepping stone to SM, now I appreciate it in it's own right.
The case remains however, that there is a hole in my life. I've missed out on at least a decade of sex because I let my inhibitions overpower my desire—and it's been painful. AM is helping me to dwell less on the past and be alpha in the present, but I've still only slept with one woman and not had sex in 2 years.
I want to have sexual relationships with attractive women. I want the social skills and a social life that is conducive to this. I want to f*&k like a jackrabbit and have the confidence knowing I can deliver sexually. I want to have multiple partners and plenty of options. I want quality AND quantity.
This desire permeates my thoughts.
P.S. Low-confidence may be a big part of why I cum fast.
