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[GlaizenGold777]

:: Resistance ::

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Depression is often a result of the subconscious wanting to resist the program, but realizing that it cannot... feeling unable to avoid that change that scares it... and responding with depression (feelings of hopelessness to avoid a fear). Until the change is made, at which time it disappears and is replaced by new positive programming. It is also possible that you are confronting and dealing with feelings of hopelessness in other directions based on other things, usually strongly ingrained faulty thinking and beliefs.

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Shannon, I just had the wildest idea. Suppose someone requested a program that's main goal was eliminating resistance. The program would be intended to make the user's subconsious mind less resistant but only towards your program. An example line would be "I now effortlessly assimilate all information from subliminals created by Shannon Matteson". And here's the kicker: the sub would be recorded in the person's own voice. Eh? Eh? Would such a program be possible? (Obviously it would have to be a full custom).

A subliminal designed to eliminate resistance would be of little use, unfortunately. Here's why.

1. Every program already incorporates everything I can do to eliminate and overcome resistance already... as that knowledge existed at the time it was created.

2. Resistance is nothing more than a refusal to cooperate. If they refuse to cooperate with me telling them they want to do X, and then they refuse to cooperate with me telling them they allow themselves to be influenced... what's going to change anything about that from the point of using your idea? The only thing you suggest that would make a difference is to record in their own voice, which is a full custom, which I don't have time for building anyway.

Possible? Yes.

Useful for those who genuinely need it the most? Unfortunately, unlikely. I appreciate you trying to help, though. :-)

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There are a few things I'd like to point out, specify, clarify for those of you who may be confused by this.

Subliminal resistance. Is it the subliminal?

Before I answer that, let me say very clearly:

No subliminal of mine will ever "make you" resist. That is to say, every possible effort has been made to prevent resistance and get you to accept and act on the script of the program. It is designed to do it's job, not cause resistance.

Resistance is a response to the subliminal and what it is guiding you to do. It is a choice, whether conscious, subconscious or both, and it is your choice. The subliminal did not "make you" resist it.

In fact I spent three years researching and developing the anti-resistance methods and techniques that go into 4G technology and another year developing 5G specifically to overcome resistance.

The goal is not to force you to do XYZ, but to get you, at all levels, to agree to do them, and then act on them.

This is why, as I recently had forcibly pointed out to me, I cannot create a subliminal that will work for 100% of the population. There will always be people who can, and will, resist. Why?

Some people see it as "being told what to do". Some people see it as losing control of themselves. Some people resist because what they are being guided to do conflicts with current programming in a way that is not dealt with in the subliminal script itself.

Quite simply, it is impossible for anyone to create a single script that will work for everyone, because everyone has unique reasons for their actions and unique "programming". (And before you think this is an excuse to go create your own, ask yourself, "Do I know enough about psychology to figure out what my real challenges are, and do I know how to safely script and build a subliminal?")

Let's take a look at some cases I have been following for a while now as examples. Starting with our own Benjamin. I had done six years of R&D on weight loss before I heard from him, and his insights into what made HIM have trouble with weight gain/loss were things I had never heard before. What I didn't realize at the time was simply that it doesn't matter how many people I interview for this topic, there are so many reasons why people are overweight, or have trouble losing weight, that I can never create a script that works for everyone, all the time. Part of it is that I can't know all the reasons for potential resistance, because the reasons in an emotional core person will not be rational, and therefore do not make logical sense. That means there's no way to figure out what all of them will be without interviewing each case, and discovering their individual programming and triggers. Weight loss, as it tuns out, is an extremely personal and unique thing for the majority of the people I have been aiming my weight loss products at: the really stubborn cases, and the obese. They need specific, specialized, individual attention to achieve their goals.

That's why they fail when they try to use universalized solutions. There is still a part of them that is resisting, either because it isn't mature enough to understand that blindly resisting just to refuse to be "told what to do" is not helping them, or because they're afraid of "losing control of themselves", or some combination of the two, or because of some other fear that is dredged up by the program (one example could be "If I am not overweight, I'll get raped again.")

I can't make a subliminal that forces you to lose weight. In the end, the choice is always yours how to respond to help, including the subliminal. Whether you resist it consciously or subconsciously, resistance is a choice somewhere in there, and that choice comes from free will, because I cannot create a subliminal that forces you to change -- and honestly, even if I could, I doubt I would, simply on moral grounds.

Now looking at Patti's case, is this true of her case too? Her reasons for being a smoker were never voiced by anyone else who I interviewed over the years. But ultimately, once again, the resistance was a choice on her part. The subliminal was guiding her to quit smoking, and her response (subconsciously, from my understanding) was to resist. She saw cigarettes as her friend, and as a way of having control of her life where she saw no such control as existing elsewhere.

In effect, she resisted because she saw the subliminal's guidance as telling her to get rid of her friend, and give up the only control she believed she had in life. Not exactly very logical or rational responses to cigarettes, but given her point of view as it was, who wants to get rid of a friend and give up control? Regardless, her reaction was her choice. The subliminal didn't make her resist. And, now that she has come to understand that these were her reasons for resisting, and has come to realize that cigarettes are not a friend, because friends don't kill you or deprive your children of time they could spend with you otherwise, or cause you emphysema or cancer, or or or, and that there are other ways for her to have control in her life, I think you'll find that she quits next time around.

And if she doesn't? There's nothing I can do about it: it was her choice to keep smoking. Subconscious, maybe, but her choice regardless.

My subliminals are very probably the best in the world, and the most effective in the world as well. But until I can read minds or force all to do my bidding, I can't create a subliminal that can get everyone to follow along with what it's suggesting, and guiding them to do. And like I said, I really don't think I want to live in a world where I - or anyone else - could force someone else to think and do their bidding like that.

My subliminals are designed from the ground up to be safe, useful and effective. They cannot cause negative effects. Negative responses to my subliminals come from resistance to them - and they are not caused by the subliminal. They are caused by the subconscious of the person listening to them, as it tries everything it can think of to get them to stop using the program. There is, quite simply, nothing in my programs that can cause negativity. Period.

In order to be fair to all, we have a generous refund policy. But the policy can't be too generous, or some people will take advantage of us. So all we ask is that, in order to be eligible for a refund, you use the program according to the directions, and you use it completely. Once you have done those things, if you are not satisfied, you are welcome to a refund. But if you don't use it according to the directions, or you stop in the middle, you cannot say it didn't work for you, because you did not follow the directions!

If you have such severe resistance that you choose to stop in the middle, you have to make that choice for you. But, when you do that and then ask for a refund, you're basically saying, "I refused to allow this program to do what I bought it for, so I want my money back." Which is the same logic as if you said, "I bought this tree and chopped it down the next day, and it died, so I want my money back."

If you have resistance to one of my programs, that's unfortunate, but it isn't the fault of the program, or me. It is not grounds for a refund, unless you have finished the whole program and did not get the results you wanted as a result. Even then, it's not reasonable for you to be getting a refund, but we'll give you one anyway, because you used it according to the directions and did not get the desired results.

But if you resist it so hard that you choose to stop in the middle, for whatever reason, that is not grounds for a refund. That means you need to find yourself someone to help you understand why you are resisting so hard, and help you overcome the core cause of that resistance.

In GK's case, he says he "felt like suicide" as a result of using my SM 2.0 program. I have no doubt that he is telling the truth when he says that, but is it the fault of Sex Magnet? No. Sex Magnet is designed to overcome resistance and cause him to change his behaviors in ways that will result in him having more sex with desirable women. That has nothing to do with suicide, and suicide is not a reasonable response to being guided to do things like approach women and hit on them, or give them sexual eye contact, or manifest the women into his life who want tot have sex with him.

In GK's case, what we are almost certainly dealing with is very early, very deep fear-based programming that tells him something terrible is going to happen if he complies with these suggestions. I would put money on it being some variant of being told he was going to be punished horribly if he did things like that, and there's very few sources for such threats to come from. But the way his resistance has manifested itself tells me that is the most likely scenario. If he really does subconsciously feel like suicide is preferable to doing what SM 2.0 is telling him to do, then it's a threat that was made to him at some early age which would cause him to fear whatever it is even more than death itself. I can think of exactly one thing that I have seen cause reactions like that, but Rule #4 prevents me from discussing that further.

Does this give him grounds for a refund? No. The responsibility for his response is not mine, and it is not that of the subliminal. Had he completed the program, he would be eligible for a refund even though it was not mine or my subliminal's fault that it didn't work. But he stopped, and it is probably a good idea that he stopped.

He did complete AM 2011, and claims similar problems, and a lack of good results. The policy is that he has 180 days to request a refund after using the 2011 program, and I believe he is still within that time frame, so as long as he requests it through the proper channels, we are glad to refund him for that. But I am puzzled as to why there would be the purchase of SM 2.0 after using AM 2011 when it did not give him pleasing results. We will be refunding GK for AM 2011, since policy does not allow for a refund of SM 2.0.

Regardless, I am not pointing fingers or blaming him or anyone else. I am trying to explain the situation and our refund policy.

In light of the fact that I cannot control all the variables concerning manifestation programs, I have decided to change our refund policy on them as well. Manifestation programs are no longer eligible for refunds if they were purchased after the 1st of April 2012, because too many of the variables they require to be in alignment are out of my control. I can make the subliminal part do it's job, but I cannot make you accept it, and I cannot know, change or deal with any of a thousand other variables that exist "out there" which will potentially prevent the results from manifesting within a reasonable time frame, or at all. So if you purchase a Type D program after April 1st, 2012, it is not eligible for refund.

We want you to be happy with the programs I produce. That's why we offer the generous refund policy that we do. But it is out of my hands to force you to let the program do it's job, and if you don't meet the refund policy requirements, you are not eligible for a refund. It's as simple as that. Keep that in mind before purchasing programs that you know will take six or more months to complete, especially if you have not been happy with other programs in the past.

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I've been using ASC for a couple of weeks now and I am liking the results, apart from the tiredness (I work long hours so can't increase my sleep to compensate).

I've noticed that I'm more relaxed with people and less concerned with their opinions of me. I'm holding more eye contact as well, but a strange thing happened yesterday around lunchtime. I suddenly found it really difficult to hold eye contact and became really self conscious. It felt like everyone was looking at me. It lasted for about an hour, then I was back to my new improved self. Can subs cause very sudden ups and downs like this? Is it the resistance I've been hearing about, or is it just part of the process and just means it's working properly? I'm definitely going to continue with it for 2 or 3 months as I like everything it's done apart from that one lapse and the tiredness.

Resistance comes in different ways. Bursts of intense resistance can be one of those ways. It usually happens that way in response to achieving some goal of the program's that frightens some part of your subconscious and causes a short term push for control. Eventually, the fear generating programming will be overcome and it will stop.

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AM you were apparently fighting. This you are apparently not. Much easier when you take your foot off the breaks, no? :-)

Yeah, it definitely is. It's like I'm just hungrily SOAKING it all up. But I do have a question about AM, then. First: why the resistance? and second: won't the resistance to AM (and the lack of results because of it) affect SM's performance?

Why resistance? As far as I can tell it always boils down to fear of something, and if you're not ready to face it yet you might resist. Or you may just be one of those people who hates doing anything but what you want to do, and that would be based in a fear of loss of control of yourself.

Resisting AM doesn't mean it isn't having an impact, it just means you were resisting that impact. It's still there. As to how much benefit you lost by resisting, I cannot say. It's a case by case situation, and you'll have to evaluate when you get done.

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Hello, can someone explain to me in as much detail as they can about releasing Resistance with subliminal use.

What is resistance?
Why do we have resistance?
How do we release resistance? ...Do we release resistance in our dreams?

Sorry if it has been asked before, or if information is posted somewhere near.
I would just like a bit more concrete explanation to best of your abilities, specially Shannon because he is the creator of the subliminal programs, so I am sure he understands about resistance quite well.


Thank you

Hi, Blueness. Yes, I have done quite a bit of research about resistance and how to overcome it. Unfortunately, it is not possible to overcome all types of resistance using subliminals alone; but, the good news is, not many people will have the types of resistance that I can't overcome well. They are fortunately unusual, if not rare.

Resistance is, in general, any situation in which the person experiencing exposure to a subliminal (in this case) tries to prevent the incoming stimulus from influencing them.

The why behind resistance depends on the person, personality, previous programming, and circumstances. The simplest resistance is simply lethargy - a mass at rest tends to remain at rest. Change takes energy.

Then you have homeostatic resistance (HR), where the functioning system will seek to prevent itself from changing because change represents a potential threat to certain levels of awareness, based on their limits of comprehension and cognition in certain directions.

A step beyond simple homeostatic resistance is programmed fear based resistance (PFR). This is a fear of change or influence from outside the "self" based on sense of loss of control or potential threat, which itself is based on one or more fear based beliefs or previous fear generating/harmful experiences.

Beyond that is stressed emotional programmed fear based resistance (SEPFR), which results in neurotic and/or extremely anxious responses to change, which gives it hair trigger sensitivity. It can become very difficult to overcome, and is self defeating in the sense that the more information it has to work with, the harder it is to overcome, because that information is often used to fortify the resistance in new ways.

Then you have your conscious/subconscious fear based resistance (CSFBR) which takes it a step further by being both a conscious and subconscious resistance to changing. Consciously seeking to avoid circumstances which may lead to exposure, etc. CSFBR usually isn't outwardly or obviously anxiety based.

Finally, there is the core personality resistance type (CPRT), which is the hardest to overcome. This type of resistance is based in the body itself, usually being a function of the hard wiring of the brain and/or the physical physiological expression. It results in some extremely resistant personality types, some so resistant that they will self destruct before they allow themselves to change.

Releasing resistance is a function of the type of resistance. Each type has its own release. Only two would typically need to be dealt with on a conscious level by the person. Suffice it to say that for those types of resistance that can be overcome with the subliminals themselves, it's in there. The other two require either conscious effort to change the core response through choice and efforts to increase maturity (CPRT) or some sort of counseling or therapy (SEPFR). CSFBR, interestingly enough, is rather susceptible to being overcome by the subliminal itself in many cases, which they know, and that is why they have the conscious aspect of the resistance.

You can release resistance in your dreams, as a matter of fact, yes, but it requires the right stimulus or intent and focus.

I hope this makes sense - it's almost 7 am and I have been up all night working.

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what do you suggest we do if someone wants to work on their resistance conciously?

Well, generally, the best thing to do is:

1. Identify any resistance present.
2. Determine the type and cause(s).
3. Consciously and definitively decide to overcome the resistance.
4. Work on overcoming the properties that make you resistant. (Turn blind stubbornness into conscious strength of will, for instance; locate sources of fear, cut them off and destroy them by facing them; etc.)
5. For the more difficult types, meditation on improving helps.

Subliminals can only do so much for overcoming certain types of resistance. Some types can be entirely overcome with subliminals; other types take months and years of conscious effort at self improvement.

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just an idea that came to help fight possible resistance from people? Please ignore it if its irrelevant or silly.

A simple affirmation "I believe in subliminals and I know they work for me" Just thought I'd brain dump this here.

Thank you, but I beat you to it. There's not only something like that in my current regimen, but it actually goes a lot further, too. Smile

The problem isn't that there's insufficient dealing with resistance, it's that certain types of people have a resistance to ANYTHING at ANY LEVEL that even REMOTELY makes them think they're being "told what to do". I'd estimate about 1 in 20 people are like that. Not necessarily on all subjects, but still. They can, unfortunately, resist almost anything I can do.

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Ok I read your long post about resistance when you posted it but didn't reply right away, as I had to think a while.

I get that your stressed right now, this reply isn't meant to sound like an attack or anything, i'm just writing off the top of my head what I am feeling about it.

The first thing with the weight loss sub is that it's not like it's just me that isn't losing much weight from it, from the look it's the same in the other journals, and a few of them haven't reported at all, I believe if they had lost lots of weight they would be running here to say it was working for them.

To the best of my knowledge, everyone who used it has stalled out or started gaining weight again around the three month mark. That's why I got so stressed out and was coming up on burnout, because naturally that means I missed something, and it needs to be rebuilt. I am at something of a loss as to how to do it, even though I know what needs to be done, because there are so many ways forward.

That we got this far and had it stop working is frustrating, but it reveals more about the challenge, which gives me more ammunition for the solution. I am just feeling frustrated by my constant failure to get to my goal on this topic, and feeling lost as to how to proceed. Especially if it turns out the best way forward is to build a lot of different versions. 5G is no joke.

I am sure that there will be people who can't use the program successfully because they either refuse to be "told what to do" or they need more personal consideration than can be had in a standard subliminal.

But yes I agree weight loss can be a complicated thing with the mind. One interesting thing about the being told not to do thing, is that this was strengthened alot for me during Alpha, so it successfully made me hate being told what to do in alot of situations and now that same programming is apparently working against me here?

I was thinking about that the other day. It's possible. But the programs are designed to trigger as little resistance as possible, and to get around what resistance does pop up as much as possible.

When I write about my resistance, being frustrated it isn't working etc.. it's not an attack on you at all Shannon, it is simply me writing what I am feeling at that time, it's similar with EFT which I do myself, I get alot of stuff coming up and don't blame the creator of EFT, I know it is more stuff coming up that I can work on.

I never thought it was an attack on me, or took it as one.

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Ah just found this in Sarah's journal.

I bet that what happened was I was getting close to a breakthrough so that stubborn subconscious of mine started resisting harder and harder... until POW, down that wall smashed. What do you think, Shannon? Would you agree that that is likely what happened?

That is what was happening with me, my breakthrough is coming!

-Ben

You bet it is. I have realized that one of the most insidious forms of resistance the subconscious can offer up is simply stonewalling, because if you think nothing's happening for long enough, you see no point in continuing. Even I fell for it, and thought my program wasn't working! I think now that part of why that happened was so that I would have the impetus to go back and redesign and rebuild the 5G version. 5G would not have come to be without that having happened.

Never give up. Never surrender. It just takes time and patience to dissolve the walls.

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I went to visit my tester for the weight loss 5G sub tonight. She admitted that since Saturday's test, she hasn't been using it.

I asked why, and she told me...

"Honestly? I'm afraid of success."

Upon inquiring, it turns out she is afraid of being at her ideal weight for reasons of personal safety. Which of course is covered in the script, and I told her so. After hearing that, she started charging batteries for her mp3 player.

Interesting thing, though. She is seeing definite results ever since she was exposed for about 4 hours on Saturday. She forgot to take a medication she takes for adjusting her brain chemistry because the reason she takes it - anger issues - was not there. (The sub deals with stress relief.) She realized she hadn't taken it when she responded to two separate incidents without getting upset, which she told me would have had her through the roof otherwise. She also was noticing another effect, but I don't remember what it was. I suspect she may not have actually told me what it was, as we get sidetracked a lot when we talk.

She was afraid of using it because after 4 hours of exposure, she said, "I know it will work. I just know it. I don't know how. But I do."

Thumbs up!

Interesting that is some big resistance. With all the resistance i've had and still have i've never not turned it on, i've had nights i've thought I just shouldn't bother anymore, but I keep playing it. I think in the last 2 years or so i've been using subliminals i've only missed about 2 or 3 nights and that was because I was in a hotel where I had nothing to play them on.

Interesting with the anger issues, because I know myself that is a part of the weight issues, and eating when you are angry is one of the parts of it.

-Ben

I wouldn't say big resistance. I would say big fear. She should actually not be very resistant at all when she uses the program, and I think her recognizing that fact internally is what made her hide from it. She knows it will work, but fears being at her ideal weight because of how she was treated in the past when she was there.

Anger is a major stressor. In emotional core types, it is often unpleasant to express, and there may be feelings of "being bad" for being angry or for expressing it. There may be guilt or shame associated with being mad or expressing it. So it is often internalized, which tends to cause depression and hopelessness, from what I have seen. That in turn triggers the famous emotional core vicious cycle of eat for comfort > gain weight > get negative responses from others for being big > eat for comfort.

These programs take all of this into account, and if you allow them to influence and guide you, they will clear away all of this.

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@ Shail

Hi Shannon,

1) Last Hope - I had been going through a long phase of failures in my life so far, starting form the age of understanding. Since then there were very less instances where i acted confidently, the repetitive sequence of failures led me to loss of my self - confidence and when someone falls in this kind of state/situation he starts looking for a hope, desperately. when he finds one, all his hopes rest on it which indirectly creates FEAR, (that this should work) which becomes the most difficult, covert enemy of his own self.

That is true.

2) Expectations/Result - Shannon, Please let me make it very clear that I'm NOT (WILL NEVER) questioning the genuineness of your programs or any fear of control out of that, neither I'm denying the power of subs or the results so many people have got, in fact these encouraging results led me to try subs. But that again just added to FEAR that I should also get the result. Now, this is entirely my minds fault and i take full responsibility for it, I'm not trying to be arrogant, I might have expressed wrongly or that shouldn't be the way of expression, i was just making a point that - For some reason, I did not get a result .

It's not a matter of I think I am a genius or that my programs are ingenious or somehow infallible. It's just a matter of balancing the point of view. That you didn't get results is not in question, although you may have gotten results you did/do not realized were results. There is a lot of arrogance in the thinking of the people who are very logical and skeptical, and it is based in fear. They refuse to accept or see anything they don't yet understand, especially how to get from where they are to where the subject is. They believe that if they cannot understand how it works, it cannot work. The way you phrased your post sounded to me as if that was the case.

3) Fear Of Failure - Anything which should be taken positively is indirectly being taken negatively by my mind. People are getting results which should be taken positively but then I'm taking it negatively that I should also succeed. I found you, believed in you and your programs with full devotion but then again this positive note changed into FEAR again ....what if it didn't work on me? while in fact it might have worked my mind is not able to accept it. It's difficult to understand why i have become an enemy of my own self ? Shannon, I'm not fearing any control or anything of that sort, in fact if anyone is ready to take full control of me for a good change to bring in me I'm even ready for that (That was the reason i met 3 different certified professional hypnotherapist while i had a job and even requested them to take control. But now i can't afford to see one as I'm jobless since a long time and short of money). it's just that it had been a long time that i haven't tasted success or acted confidently that I'm desperate to succeed which is again creating FEAR. It's difficult for me to view things from a neutral stand point.

That is definitely a fear based response. Perhaps you should consider finding the root of that fear through meditation. You can also hypnotize yourself, you know. One thing I find common is that people assume their conscious response is also their subconscious response, which usually is not the case, and this disparity and lack of understanding that there even is a disparity, causes them problems. I can't know your history, but I can say it seems likely that subconsciously you have a fear of control, and by the sounds of it, possibly even a full feedback loop of fear concerning control in both directions. Fear is irrational, an emotional response, which is good in that your emotions are involved, but you have to understand the fear before you can release it. Self analysis and introspection, and self hypnosis, are valuable tools for that, as are meditation and creative visualization. You also have to know when it is time to stop waiting for someone or something else to do it for you, and do for yourself sometimes.

4) Critical Conscious/placebo - Before i turned to subs I had tried 3 certified professional hypnotherapists but again my conscious or logical side continuously interrupted.

That would be a resistance response, which is probably rooted in the subconscious. It is probably perceived by your subconscious as a self defense tactic, suggesting that at some point in the past, you had an experience that led you to react that way to such "perceived threats", and also pointing to control issues and subconscious fear of control, and losing it.

So i started looking for some method which would by-pass this critical thinking. In my effort to by-pass this critical/logical side i created my own subs before i found you. And the method of creation was such that i created some 4-5 subs relating to my 4-5 small problems and i randomly choose one, without knowing what that program/sub is for and what would be the outcome/results fearing the detection or interference from my conscious/critical mind (even i renamed all the subs randomly, ambiguously). But, may be, that was my first program and that too created by me or I didn't use it properly for long time, for some reason it didn't give me any result. But that was not the end i still believed in subs.

Creating your own subs makes a big difference. It means an endless number of possible variables I cannot account for as to how you affected yourself. You cannot know whether or not you made mistakes in the scripting and/or build process, or what types of mistakes you made, or what effects that would have. You also cannot know if it was created properly, and if you didn't use it properly, then you're not going to get the results. Also, you cannot do a random sampling by yourself: the subconscious knows which one is which.

But it's not a matter of belief. Subliminals can and do work just fine on people who don't even know they're being exposed, never mind what the program is designed to do. It's a question of proper creation, proper usage and non-resistance.

I just mentioned this to let you know how i deceived my own conscious and what is the degree of fear i have for it to deceive it in this way. Shannon, I have to unfortunately mention that more or less I'm in the situation of your grandfather, may be. Because when i used ASC.my conscious knew it was for confidence so this alert guard was all time searching for any slightest clue of confidence just to deny it as a placebo effect. But I'm willing to come out of this situation and the only way would be to use that decisive technique which i used for creating subs myself.

This only tells me that I am right, it's not your conscious mind that is resisting, it is a subconscious response. And by the way, knowing what I know, I would never use a sub not created by an expert scripter and subliminals builder. Of which I only know of possibly three in the world, including myself. My advice is, don't use self made subliminals.

In conclusion in my case it would be-
1) Last Hope + 2)Expectations/Result + 3)Fear Of Failure + 4)Critical Conscious/placebo (or knowing what the program is for) = FAILURE (FOR ME ONLY)

I think you would be well served by taking a step back from yourself and looking at your situation with fresh eyes. Look outside the box. Try to see your situation from someone else's point of view. Realize that perhaps your assumptions about certain things (last chance, etc.) are not correct. You may (probably) have placed artificial limits on yourself that only exist because you insist that they do, based on "this is all I can see". Try looking past that.

Subs offered by you were my last hope which i expected to work which created Fear Of Failure and knowing which program is working on me my critical/logical started denying results. It's all my fault, I'm caught in a web woven by my own self, which I didn't notice.

If you wove it, you can un-weave it. But first you need to understand it.

I want to overcome whatever is holding me back but i don't know what it is and how to overcome it. I'm willing to cooperate for the program to affect me but i don't know how to do it. For your kind information i don't smoke and neither I'm fat to experiment with any latest product. And I think the best way for any sample to be tested to work on me would be to covertly use it without my conscious knowing what it is for and the resultant benefits (my way of using decisive technique). What do you think? How do we go from here? Or can we try working on my 4-5 small issues which will not take much time to give results looking at the type of problems. I will give the list, you choose any one of them, program it (and if anyone of these already match the program you have you won't even have to program it) and give me without me knowing what it is for?

I wasn't implying that you smoke or are overweight. I'm just saying that is all I have built as 5G right now.

If you're suggesting a double blind experiment, then the experiment has to be done with you not knowing anything about what you may or may not be receiving. I would have to create say five programs that could all, some or none consist of subliminals designed to do something, or possibly be dummy subliminals designed to do nothing, or possibly be pure placebo. Then you would pick one, and use it for 30 to 90 days (the longer the better), journal your results, and then report them back.

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Hey Shannon just a quick question. I've been using remove negativity within for a couple of days now and I've just noticed something strange. Every time I start to play it I feel very anxious and I get a kind of tightness in my chest that I'm very familiar with. As I listen to it more that anxiety seems to lower a bit. But the next day when I play it again it's at the same level and I go through the same process.

I suggest increasing exposure time to as much as possible, if that's the case.

I don't know how normal that is or common, but I'm assuming this is a result of my fear of change? This happens with all subs, and I think it's also rooted in my need for control and trust issues. I'm very resistant to change. I don't know but I also fear success maybe. It's like I want to change, but at the same time moving past these negatives and achieving success brings more fear into me.

Fear of change creates resistance to change. Change is the only thing that is universally inevitable. A knot of fears that are inter-supportive is not uncommon in two specific personality types. You have the second personality type. My grandmother was the same way, and I used to be also.

I mean is fear of success even a real thing? I guess I was never too fond of standing out or being in the limelight. I also have a tendency to sell myself short.

There is no limit to how irrational fear is... so there is no limit to what can be feared. I have encountered people who feared success and failure, at the same time, and feared the loss of their own fears to boot.

You'd be better served by a skilled NLP or hypnotherapy practitioner than by subs for fast results, because they can interact with you in ways that allow them to understand the problem specifically and then solve it. I have to create a fairly shotgun approach.

But, I would say your best bet is to go for 20 to 23 hours of exposure per day if possible. Run it for 3 or more months. Or, identify two major intersupportive problems and then attack them both at once, 12 hours each per day.

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