Hey Shannon, thanks for taking the time to listen to our suggestions. As someone mentioned, I think Cory Skyy has some great ideas when dealing with this topic. He inspired me to begin improving myself which eventually brought me to this site. Here is a quote from a newsletter of his that seems relevant.
Here are some characteristics that true ladies men have
· They are real, authentic, genuine, and they do not look for anyone else's approval.
· They live in the moment, and are not outcome oriented.
· They are spontaneous and totally random.
· They are confident and get respect naturally where ever they go. They own there space, they are comfortable with whom they are, they have a solid belief that they can have what they want, they are extremely comfortable talking to guys and girls, they do not have a big ego, and they have respect for other guys that are great with women.
· They are not afraid of living on the edge, they are not afraid to speak their mind, they are not afraid to do stupid shit and laugh about it, they do not care what others think, and they do not allow others to influence who they are and what they do.
· They love themselves, they take care of themselves, they love what they see when they look in the mirror, they are sexy full time (being sexy is not a part time job) because it is there lifestyle.
· They use their eyes to speak a thousand words, they understand that attraction is not a choice –it’s there or it’s not, they pay attention when a women talks to them, and they love women.
· They have goals for themselves -not others, they live for themselves, they don't let the little things in life bother them, and they are natural leaders.
· They go out often and enjoy meeting new people and love just going out and having fun.
If you are really serious about becoming great with women than you need to work on developing these qualities for yourself. These are many of the qualities that women melt over. The list may seem far out there for some people and not for others. Either way I recommend you look over the list several times and begin to work on the areas you are lacking in.
Make this your new lifestyle
I know a lot of this is already covered in the Alpha Male program, but it couldn't hurt reinforcing it. What I'd like to see from this program is an continued devlopment of the social aspects (outgoing, charisma, humor), a powerful aura of sexual magnetism that gets obvious responses, and a mindset of (and experience) of abundance. Essentially, I want to become THAT GUY that women want to be with, and to reap the sexual rewards of becoming that person.
Concerns:
-Shannon, I know you've mentioned this before but sex does not equal happiness. I'd like to make sure this program impacts our lives in a positive and fulfilling way. Sure, an amazing sex life would be great, but I don't want to "Live Like a Porn Star!" or whatever was suggested a while back.
- I don't want to manipulate women in any way. I want any positive outcomes from this program to be a result of becoming great ourselves. This is the key to being able to genuinely connect with beautiful women on a regular basis. Some suggestions I've seen (e.g. subtle sexual innuendo) seem creepy and manipulative to me.
Beyond that, I'd just like to thank you for all your work Shannon. I'm currently undergoing 2010 alpha male and loving it. Keep up the great work.
Here are some characteristics that true ladies men have
· They are real, authentic, genuine, and they do not look for anyone else's approval.
· They live in the moment, and are not outcome oriented.
· They are spontaneous and totally random.
· They are confident and get respect naturally where ever they go. They own there space, they are comfortable with whom they are, they have a solid belief that they can have what they want, they are extremely comfortable talking to guys and girls, they do not have a big ego, and they have respect for other guys that are great with women.
· They are not afraid of living on the edge, they are not afraid to speak their mind, they are not afraid to do stupid shit and laugh about it, they do not care what others think, and they do not allow others to influence who they are and what they do.
· They love themselves, they take care of themselves, they love what they see when they look in the mirror, they are sexy full time (being sexy is not a part time job) because it is there lifestyle.
· They use their eyes to speak a thousand words, they understand that attraction is not a choice –it’s there or it’s not, they pay attention when a women talks to them, and they love women.
· They have goals for themselves -not others, they live for themselves, they don't let the little things in life bother them, and they are natural leaders.
· They go out often and enjoy meeting new people and love just going out and having fun.
If you are really serious about becoming great with women than you need to work on developing these qualities for yourself. These are many of the qualities that women melt over. The list may seem far out there for some people and not for others. Either way I recommend you look over the list several times and begin to work on the areas you are lacking in.
Make this your new lifestyle
I know a lot of this is already covered in the Alpha Male program, but it couldn't hurt reinforcing it. What I'd like to see from this program is an continued devlopment of the social aspects (outgoing, charisma, humor), a powerful aura of sexual magnetism that gets obvious responses, and a mindset of (and experience) of abundance. Essentially, I want to become THAT GUY that women want to be with, and to reap the sexual rewards of becoming that person.
Concerns:
-Shannon, I know you've mentioned this before but sex does not equal happiness. I'd like to make sure this program impacts our lives in a positive and fulfilling way. Sure, an amazing sex life would be great, but I don't want to "Live Like a Porn Star!" or whatever was suggested a while back.
- I don't want to manipulate women in any way. I want any positive outcomes from this program to be a result of becoming great ourselves. This is the key to being able to genuinely connect with beautiful women on a regular basis. Some suggestions I've seen (e.g. subtle sexual innuendo) seem creepy and manipulative to me.
Beyond that, I'd just like to thank you for all your work Shannon. I'm currently undergoing 2010 alpha male and loving it. Keep up the great work.
