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Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Shannon - 01-20-2011
I know I must be doing something right when I work myself half to death building the AM2011 and then you guys immediately want me to keep working on another major 6 stage program (the so called "sex magnet").
Okay, I'll take that as a compliment. Thank you.
But I am going to take this week to rest a bit and keep it low key before I get serious again, or I'll burn out.In the mean time, although I have a very good idea what I am planning to do with Sex Magnet, I'm open as always to your ideas and suggestions. Feel free to post them here.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Spiral - 01-20-2011
I guess I'll mention what I would like to see specifically..
- Eye Seduction (Using eye contact to amp up the sexual attraction in your soon to be partner right from the start)
- Sexual Aura, Masculine aura (women hypnotized by your presence in a good way. You exude such warmth they just want to be with you)
In fact with that you may want to figure out a way to not only let the more alpha type women come on to you but even the shyer ones can't even hold back.. maybe they are more subtle and won't make the first move but you obviously know what's going on. Exuding a friendly and warm aura is probably key here.
- Subtle sexual innuendo when talking to women that keeps them talking.. if you aren't making out already.
- Sexual confidence and ultimate freedom in the bedroom willing and ready to be dominant but also ok letting the girl dominate you (some guys may only prefer dominance..)
- Seize the day type attitude as well as a Positive, optomistic outlook and success based mindset.
- Abundance of beautiful women!
- Carefree attitude when it comes to any social situation and ability to disconnect from anything negative or anything holding you back from your goals.
- all needieness gone about any sort of sexual encounter or attention from women. needieness in general should be taken care of with alpha male.
I'm sure you already had these in mind.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Roy - 01-20-2011
Spiral's suggestions are great.
Screening is important.Avoiding women that are not healthy,mature,sexually confident and bad to have around.
Removing negative beliefs about the all topic of women,sex and abundance.
Keeping balance with the rest of the stuff in life and knowing to handle those women and not getting distracted by them.
Seize the day attitude being focused on the present moment acting on every opportunity.Being bold and direct as a way of living,not just with women.
Having fun and enjoying all of the women and social interactions.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - ronatello - 01-20-2011
Quote: Is it possible to have something like, so we always have beautiful women on the go?It reminds me of several of Cory's affirmations:
Everywhere I go, I know there will always be that one girl I will be with (shannon can rephrase this better, LOL)
Everywhere I go, women want me / love me etc.
Everywhere I go, I know women want to be with me.
So with Spiral's and Blueness, ideas, here goes...
☼ Eye game / seduction
☼ Charisma
☼ remove guilt / negative limiting beliefs anything sex related (sexual innuendo, etc)
☼ total indifference to outcome (takes in fear of rejection and anything else related)
☼ comfortable escalating
☼ abundance of beautiful women mindset (women calling, texting, and so on as well)
☼ gratitude (being grateful for having an abundance, etc.)
☼ approach anxiety (expand on this from Alpha male)
☼ expand on socializing
☼ seize the moment (be more in the present moment vs in the head thinking too much)
☼ abundance of happiness and joy (radiating happiness and joy to others)
☼ successful / winners mindset
☼ enjoys sex
☼ highly increased sex drive (slow build up from like stage 2 to 6)
☼ something that would cause one to want to visualize more (and bring the visualizations to fruition)
☼ presence: causing women to *want* to approach
☼ develop an "edge"
☼ step out of comfort zone
☼ flirting (with sexual undertones)
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Shannon - 01-20-2011
Wow. Some of what is being suggested is already in AM 2011. Some of it I can't bend the rules of reality well enough for... (manifesting 3 girls wherever you go/all the time doesn't seem reasonably do-able at this time).
But it's sounding like you guys are designing a very different program to Woman Magnet.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - RainbowAbyss - 01-20-2011
Shannon, I really like how u described
Sex magnet when comparing it to wm
Think a hank moody with his life pulled together
Im gonna throw in more obscure stuff I think would help
Love of women and sex
having woman be direct, aggressive-in a healthy way, and pushing to
Escalate and take things physical
as well as total authentic desire and capabilty
to escalte on women
logistics handling and
comfort getting down anywhere
deep connection with women
total sense of abundance
seeing women in their natural beauty and
knowing they love to get sexual
total sense of living for ones own life and desires
being mysterious, charming, unconditional loving,
present in the body and focused on owns intentions over anything else but still aware
adventures and pushes the edge
Being able to go into 'State' or the zone really easily
feeling women would be EXTREMELY lucky to be with him
very honest, direct, and intentional
appreciate of whatevers going on
chill
playful but focused on what he wants and steering things there
Feels alot of sexual power and sex drive but totally in control
like riding a dragon lol
Totally ok, relaxed, and comftorable with himself
Has everything else fade away when he is with a women
I could go on forever but I trust shannons gonna do and awesome job.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Spiral - 01-20-2011
wow that pretty much covers it.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - mtw220 - 01-20-2011
Hey Shannon, thanks for taking the time to listen to our suggestions. As someone mentioned, I think Cory Skyy has some great ideas when dealing with this topic. He inspired me to begin improving myself which eventually brought me to this site. Here is a quote from a newsletter of his that seems relevant.
Here are some characteristics that true ladies men have
· They are real, authentic, genuine, and they do not look for anyone else's approval.
· They live in the moment, and are not outcome oriented.
· They are spontaneous and totally random.
· They are confident and get respect naturally where ever they go. They own there space, they are comfortable with whom they are, they have a solid belief that they can have what they want, they are extremely comfortable talking to guys and girls, they do not have a big ego, and they have respect for other guys that are great with women.
· They are not afraid of living on the edge, they are not afraid to speak their mind, they are not afraid to do stupid shit and laugh about it, they do not care what others think, and they do not allow others to influence who they are and what they do.
· They love themselves, they take care of themselves, they love what they see when they look in the mirror, they are sexy full time (being sexy is not a part time job) because it is there lifestyle.
· They use their eyes to speak a thousand words, they understand that attraction is not a choice –it’s there or it’s not, they pay attention when a women talks to them, and they love women.
· They have goals for themselves -not others, they live for themselves, they don't let the little things in life bother them, and they are natural leaders.
· They go out often and enjoy meeting new people and love just going out and having fun.
If you are really serious about becoming great with women than you need to work on developing these qualities for yourself. These are many of the qualities that women melt over. The list may seem far out there for some people and not for others. Either way I recommend you look over the list several times and begin to work on the areas you are lacking in.
Make this your new lifestyle
I know a lot of this is already covered in the Alpha Male program, but it couldn't hurt reinforcing it. What I'd like to see from this program is an continued devlopment of the social aspects (outgoing, charisma, humor), a powerful aura of sexual magnetism that gets obvious responses, and a mindset of (and experience) of abundance. Essentially, I want to become THAT GUY that women want to be with, and to reap the sexual rewards of becoming that person.
Concerns:
-Shannon, I know you've mentioned this before but sex does not equal happiness. I'd like to make sure this program impacts our lives in a positive and fulfilling way. Sure, an amazing sex life would be great, but I don't want to "Live Like a Porn Star!" or whatever was suggested a while back.
- I don't want to manipulate women in any way. I want any positive outcomes from this program to be a result of becoming great ourselves. This is the key to being able to genuinely connect with beautiful women on a regular basis. Some suggestions I've seen (e.g. subtle sexual innuendo) seem creepy and manipulative to me.
Beyond that, I'd just like to thank you for all your work Shannon. I'm currently undergoing 2010 alpha male and loving it. Keep up the great work.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Ryan - 01-21-2011
I like all of these ideas, I think a lot of ideas I had could be found in the old Sex God thread.
(1) Having women approach you
(2) Online dating manifestation/bringing women into your life through alternative methods
(3) Gratitude - would compliment manifestation very well
(4) A bit of an extrovert personality/honesty/openness
(5) Continuation of eye seduction
(6) Remote seduction - using your mind to spark interest in someone across the room
(7) Continue approach anxiety
(8) Charming, flirty, and teasing
(9) Sexual escalation/confidence/dominance
(10) Confidence touching
(11) Increase sex drive
(12) Carpe diem - seizing all your opportunities
(13) More on living in the moment - especially during sex
(14) Romance
(15) Not taking life so seriously, having a bit of an "I don't care attitude", have fun with life
(16) Deserving of beautiful women
(17) Goals, motivation, wanting to improve oneself
(18) Comfort being alone and socializing alone with others in public places
(19) Charisma
(20) Self-acceptance continuation
(21) Comfort with one's own body -> improved sexuality, see yourself sexually, love oneself
(22) More with sex, since sex magnet, maybe an orgasm enhancer.
Seems like we are all on the same page here haha.
I like Ron's affirmations
"everywhere I go there will always be a girl for me" would be great for both neediness and manifestation.
1 more thing:
(23) Knowing that women like sex just as much as or even more than men while removing all fears/doubts/expectations concerning sex with beautiful women.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Cortez - 01-21-2011
Wow, these are great suggestions. It should definitely have stuff in there about having better sex such as multiple orgasms because if you are going to be attracting a lot of sex then it should be good sex.
Also it would be great to have plent of stuff about being sexually fulfilled all the time and exuding an aura of sexual fulfillment. Those who are full get fed the most. Being open and relxed would be something important to put in there too because if you add the aura of sexuality with openess and relaxed body language that makes it incredibly easy for women to approach you.
Pretty much everything else I had in mind has been said already. Hank Moody with his life together is a great way to describe it. I will be buying this program.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Shannon - 01-21-2011
Great stuff, guys. I have no idea why it's so hard for corporate America to just listen to customers and give them what they want. It seems so simple... you guys tell me what you want, and then I build the best program possible from that amalgam of suggestions. Then you buy it, and get exactly what you want, and I get what I want, and everyone wins. How hard is this, really?
Thanks for being so helpful with design suggestions.
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - woceyes - 01-21-2011
hmm they pretty much covered all of what i was thinking like they said a hank moody with his life together. My favorite thing from that show is he sees something beautiful in every woman he comes across which is what makes him love women a lot
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - Ryan - 01-22-2011
Obviously, I did enjoy that part in Increase Your Sex Drive referring to having a great sex life
RE: Sex Magnet - What suggestions do you have? - RainbowAbyss - 01-22-2011
Oh almost forget
something that deal with complete disregard/comfort
with social judgementalism, both internally I.e. letting go of any fear/guilt
about sex/sexuality and externally i.e. escalating, being sexual, pulling the trigger in public
around friends or strangers-not being bothered by fear of judgement or unreasonable sense of public scrutiny/'approprioteness', (spelled wrong)
Also something that deals with spontaneous reasons to be alone with eachother
her asking/u leading etc.
its great to get what we want but
shannon def. Add all that steveO stuff u said
a big focus on amazing connection would be awesome along with the sexuality
that way whether it was a consistent thing or a ons it would be more mutually rewarding to both parties