01-17-2015, 05:19 PM
(01-17-2015, 04:54 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: That said, if you're not giving the types of value she wants, she doesn't really need to contribute. Let's say some shitty salesman approached you at the department store, and wasn't even able to make through their memorized script, would you feel obligated to help them? What if their script was all about how it would help him, but nothing was said about you? You'd probably not care, even if the product was fantastic.
Yeah but see that's what I don't get. I thought women just want a strong confident man? Well I AM that, so what else do I need to sell her? In my opinion, just approaching her is enough, cause no one else does that, what value should I bring if I'M high value? It makes no sense. Why can't it just be about sex?
(01-17-2015, 04:54 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: Remember, women have options, and they know it to some level. If she can't see that, she won't care, she doesn't have to care, and going that way is actually a sound strategy; how could her mental health be affected if she cared about the mental health of every single guy that's interested in her?
I think she'll give you something to work with if she wants you to 'win' (i.e, "get" her).
That said, when I'm genuinely attracted to a woman and talk to her, the convo runs smooth, even if she ultimately goes nowhere. When she's hot, but I'm not feeling it, I draw a blank, so does she, and the conversation is straight up shitty.
Totally women have options. They can choose from 500,000 beta males, or a handful of alphas like me. Where's the issue?
I'm not saying I'm approaching women as much as I could, I just think even if I WAS, they'd STILL be turned off me despite that confidence. It just seems to be the way.
Just now I was talking to a girl on POF. She stopped replying after I replied to her second message. like wtf is going on anyhow?
I feel like I can't do anything about it because I don't know what 'it' is.
Not trying to dump this on you, just saying it like it is.