01-16-2015, 09:45 PM
(01-16-2015, 08:18 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: Had a big discovery that I shouldn't ever modify my behavior just because women/a woman likes it. In fact, it has the opposite effect of having women like you less. ManWhore points out that certain guys are trying something with a woman, and they're looking at their friends to see what they think; that frame of mind is a weak one. You should be doing things because you want to, which requires self-validation. Same goes with dancing an improv traditional dance because YOU feel like it.
So... you're hoping women will like you more by behaving in a way that doesn't have the intent of having therm like you more so that they WILL, in fact, like you more? Lol. I think this is classic pua stuff. Here's the deal IMO: Just like women get creeped out by guys whop are sexually attracted to them but trying to hide it, so too will they be turned off a guy trying to get them to like them without showing it. It doesn't MATTER (I don't think) what your intents are, so long as you're NOT TRYING TO HIDE THEM.
Try to get approval, seek validation, do it all, just don't hide it. That's all there is to it imo. Owning your shit, warts and all.