01-12-2015, 11:03 PM
Yeah, you are both right that I should have capitalized on the signals but I think it was because I was really confused and in a state of shock of how all of a sudden she was acting so forward. I mean for someone to go from completely cold for months and then suddenly get "Oneitis" for me just threw me off. It made even more sense though after I talked to a Alpha female friend of mine (Shes pretty straight forward and doesn't give the usual lousy female "advice" so I trust her opinion). While I was telling my friend what happened she automatically asked, "While she was trying to talk to you was she trying to talk about stupid stuff"? I said yes, and she said," Yep she was probably nervous, afraid, and intimidated by you. Happens all the time with women and men when it comes to someone they are attracted to, especially if they don't have much experience with relationships". I think that is where my perception got in the way of any signals she gave. I had this image in my mind of her being a very expressive and Alpha female type person, which might be true with people shes not attracted to. Because of that perception I just thought, "well since shes generally expressive she would be more obvious with her interest with me off the bat, and since shes acting more quiet and cold around me she might not feel that way". Thinking like that It never occurred to me that maybe she was just quiet around me because she didn't know how to proceed with her interest or that she might not have that much experience with relationships so it was uncharted waters for her. I would find the latter part surprising since I would have guessed she might have had men hitting on her since she looks kinda of like Christina Hendricks but with a few extra pounds.
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I do wonder sometimes though if Stage 2 had something to do with this sudden interest though. When I thought back to anytime she started talking to me more and started starring it had started since I began Stage 2 of Women Magnet. Either way, I will use this to motivate me. I have already decided if I work there again in the summer and she is still there then its "ON" (Will be even better since I will be finish with WM by May ^_^). This whole thing also gives me hope because I literally haven't had a female be interested in me since Junior High and I'm 26 right now.
http://www.examiner.com/images/blog/EXID...cks_ap.jpg
I do wonder sometimes though if Stage 2 had something to do with this sudden interest though. When I thought back to anytime she started talking to me more and started starring it had started since I began Stage 2 of Women Magnet. Either way, I will use this to motivate me. I have already decided if I work there again in the summer and she is still there then its "ON" (Will be even better since I will be finish with WM by May ^_^). This whole thing also gives me hope because I literally haven't had a female be interested in me since Junior High and I'm 26 right now.
"I have no use of disciples. Let everyone be their own true follower" - Nietzsche