(12-30-2014, 08:32 PM)athanas Wrote: O
Actually this shouldn't be surprising, I read on many websites of those clearing tools that they clear goals and ambition even of goals you'd think of as positive.
Yeah. That's why I preferred to work with a professional rather than been my own therapist without the full training. One thing most people lack is Ecology that means thinking of how everything will be affected by using a technique (tapping, installing believe etc). We just clear out emotions or install new beliefs without thinking, why they are there in the first place, they pros and cons, what life will be like without them, how not having them will change your behavior and how that behavior will change other peoples reaction to you and how that reaction will reprogram or create another behavior etc.
At worst a person will keep creating problems and fixing them but creating more problems in the process and as a result spend their whole life in a circle, fooled by the instance results you get using these techniques. Its best to trust a professional with such powerful tools, wud you let your barber fix the car you drive your family and friends around with? Why then do we experiment with all these psychological techniques on our self without thinking of all the potential consequences (positive or negative) as a trained professional would?
Anyway am guilty of the same thing, its like an addiction, you can feel bad one min and tap away and feel good the next. Takes discipline to feel pain(unpleasant feelings) and not reach out for a pain killer when there's one right in front of you.
REMEMBER ECOLOGY.
If you can't manage the little you have now, who will trust you with more, if you can't control yourself long can you rule over others for? Its easier for a king to rule a kingdom than himself and who does want an empire? Being unconquerable lies with yourself!
