01-15-2011, 07:44 AM
Good thinking ron! Instead of fighting it, just allow it! I'm a quiet guy to so and I've come to terms with it. I don't try to be social or anything.. I just usually chill and if something pops up I say something without thinking (usually a question) and the eye contact gets everyone talking to me eventually in one way or another which opens the window. Plus it makes me look more calm reserved and mysterious.
