12-14-2014, 04:25 PM
(12-14-2014, 03:48 PM)Mateunio Wrote: If you done so you'd learn cynics have different understanding of happiness typical people (among them Blackdragon) does. ***** my way through like doesn't resonate with me.
"Happy endings may get a bad rap, but they do happen.
And when they do, they're just as true as the unhappy ones." - Hank Moody
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No one's telling you to change, just look at it through a different lens. Instead of seeing it as "hedonism" or "happy vs. cynicism" etc, you could see it as someone who is achieving what he wants. Who are you to judge how?
Also, there seems to be this belief in people (myself included, but I'm working on it) that nothing is "real" unless it's unpleasant, miserable, negative, or "realistic" (a word that sums up all three lol). The problem is, that's victimization. CHOOSING to create a life you want WILL be "fake". Why? Because it's new, hasn't been done before. In order to say "that's the REAL thing", you have to have a previous example of the REAL thing to go off of, so, of course, the thing that is being compared as "real" is, in reality, a forgery.
Nothing real can ever be defined because it's new to the world. So of course it's going to freak some people out who want "genuineness" because really they just want the security of dealing with something they've dealt with before. #unique #imspecial #icantrustthiscauseitsfamiliarasdjhnsdkjhfgdjkhngf
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