12-13-2014, 10:37 PM
Epiphamy time.
I realized on my way home from work that I no longer have that victim mentality. I did 40 days of the remove the victim mentality sub. I didn't see much of a change and what I did, was short lived.
EPHRA is amazing!!! Sorry, I can't say it enough.
I am no longer looking to my bosses for validation on my work. I no longer need that pat on my head or approval to tell me that I am a good girl. I do my job and ignore whatever is thrown my way, going with the flow. I am so much more relaxed than I can remember ever being. When faced with a problem I make my best judgement call and leave it at that.
When i start to feel frustrated, I try to understand/remind myself that I have never walked in that persons shoes, I don't know what makes them tick. What made the become the person that they are and react the way they do.
I realized on my way home from work that I no longer have that victim mentality. I did 40 days of the remove the victim mentality sub. I didn't see much of a change and what I did, was short lived.
EPHRA is amazing!!! Sorry, I can't say it enough.
I am no longer looking to my bosses for validation on my work. I no longer need that pat on my head or approval to tell me that I am a good girl. I do my job and ignore whatever is thrown my way, going with the flow. I am so much more relaxed than I can remember ever being. When faced with a problem I make my best judgement call and leave it at that.
When i start to feel frustrated, I try to understand/remind myself that I have never walked in that persons shoes, I don't know what makes them tick. What made the become the person that they are and react the way they do.
