11-26-2014, 01:52 PM
Thanks for that Ricardo, that's exactly what I've been thinking lately... and what you said... complete mindset shift. Believe me just that little piece of text you shared, I can feel it inside of me, it made something click!
I am now thinking "i can have fun and enjoy relationships without worrying too much about it going well". This is huge, thanks for that. I literally have tears in my eyes... I had to hear it from someone else than my inner voice.
I think I've got a fear of a relationship not going well... seeing that me and my bf aren't a match after all. But it's part of the game right?
what i want after all is to have healthy relationships with guys. i'm not doing SM to have sex, I just want the self-improvement bit. But if sex happens... well that's a nice side effect ^^
one of my big issue would be to just effortlessly flirt with men but I'm being pushed to do so by the program lately. So that's nice
also quick update: sex may happen soon... with an hetero :p he wants to try out men and i'm completely ok with that! huge shift too, 2 months ago I would have completely disregarded this option. But now I think that if there's physical attraction, well let's not waste it!
I am now thinking "i can have fun and enjoy relationships without worrying too much about it going well". This is huge, thanks for that. I literally have tears in my eyes... I had to hear it from someone else than my inner voice.
I think I've got a fear of a relationship not going well... seeing that me and my bf aren't a match after all. But it's part of the game right?
what i want after all is to have healthy relationships with guys. i'm not doing SM to have sex, I just want the self-improvement bit. But if sex happens... well that's a nice side effect ^^
one of my big issue would be to just effortlessly flirt with men but I'm being pushed to do so by the program lately. So that's nice
also quick update: sex may happen soon... with an hetero :p he wants to try out men and i'm completely ok with that! huge shift too, 2 months ago I would have completely disregarded this option. But now I think that if there's physical attraction, well let's not waste it!
