(10-25-2014, 06:27 AM)Shannon Wrote: Dan, you have apparently forgotten a very important truth. The results you get from these programs are the results you allow yourself to have based on how much you cooperate with it.
So if you are not getting the results you want, you have to consider why you are not allowing yourself to cooperate with the program. It is properly made, and we know from experience that it does work. Not every man gets the same results, because not every man cooperates with what it is trying to persuade you to do. You can't say the program is at fault for your lack of results in that case. Instead, you should consider two things:
1. Are you finished yet? If not, it might be wise to finish before passing judgement.
2. Why are you not cooperating? What is holding you back? Is it guilt, shame, fear, embarrassment? I would bet it is. Sex and sexuality is one of the most challenging things to deal with because there is so much guilt shame and fear surrounding it as an issue. How are you going to let yourself be a sex magnet if some part of you fears doing so? And what is more powerful a control mechanism for humans than their sex drive? Control that and you control them completely.
It seems to me that if the program is not producing the results you want, you need to figure out why you're not ready to cooperate and clear those obstacles. But don't pass judgement on the results until you're finished, and remember that the program works, but you have to cooperate with it. That's a big part of why I require people to use it after AM. And when you do pass judgement, consider your own degree of responsibility in the process. It's easy to blame the program, but the program is just a set of instructions. Who is it who decides whether or not to accept and execute them?
Ultimately, the only issue here is figuring out the cause of any blocks, and dissolving them so your subconscious mind will not fight the program.
Yeah to add to this Dan, reading your journal it seems you've been focusing more on your music than on getting sex. Now, nothing wrong with that if thats what you want, but it does seem odd that you've chosen sex magnet if you weren't hell bent on getting laid. I've gone gung-ho on getting laid since starting SM, and the results have showed, but I imagine I wouldn't have anything to show for it if I hadn't.
Turning super saiyan.
