09-19-2014, 01:44 PM
(09-18-2014, 08:58 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: For the longest time, I may the huge mistake of pretending to not be interested in women whom I found attractive, because for some reason I thought that being uninterested would make me different from all the guys who were interested. What a joke!
Just to add something, I think this comment by Geodude might hint at why we think we must pretend not to be interested in the 1st place:
(09-18-2014, 12:51 PM)Geodude Wrote: Realized something amazing:
When I talk to girls with zero anxiety, they are incredibly interested in me. When I talk to girls with a bit of anxiety, they are much less interested in me.
Essentially when you have zero anxiety, you're not trying hard to win their approval and they can be comfortable around you, have fun and even chase you. But when you still HAVE some anxiety, and you're trying to get the same results by imitating the behavior of someone without anxiety, the results is this semi-anxious dude trying to be all James Bond and thinking that all the girls must find him so hot. I definitely feel I'm moving away from that, finally.
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