Thanks Tao!
English is not my native language and I think I made a mistake - I didn't want to say that stopping porn and masturbation ruined my sexual performance (the initial post is now edited with this mention).
Watching porn and masturbating It ruined my sexual performance because it distorted the reality of how a woman really is, how it is to be in bed with her, how mistakes can happen in bed, you will not be perfect every time, sex will not be perfect every time etc.
With the girl with whom I lost my virginity, my sexual performance was kind of weak because:
- I was extremely physically and emotionally tired. We went to a holiday which involved walking more than 100 km for 8 days. The first time we had sex I could barely got excited although she is very attractive and she was all naked in front of me. The 3rd time is was a little better as we didn't walk so much for the last days of the trip.
- I had premature ejaculation due to compulsory masturbation for several years. I was such an idiot! Now, I have to invest 30 min per day with Kegel exercises and other stuff to recover my muscles.
Despite that, she was kind and supportive. She just wanted to have fun and didn't expect me to act as a porn star. I told her from the beginning that it might be possible that I will not perform in bed with her and she understood me.
Form my personal experience so far, I think that when you stop FAPping for good, your personal presence, sexual energy increases. Also, if you stop having sexual fantasies with women and move on with you life in terms of goals you will end up attracting a woman / women - depending on how evolved you are, of course.
English is not my native language and I think I made a mistake - I didn't want to say that stopping porn and masturbation ruined my sexual performance (the initial post is now edited with this mention).
Watching porn and masturbating It ruined my sexual performance because it distorted the reality of how a woman really is, how it is to be in bed with her, how mistakes can happen in bed, you will not be perfect every time, sex will not be perfect every time etc.
With the girl with whom I lost my virginity, my sexual performance was kind of weak because:
- I was extremely physically and emotionally tired. We went to a holiday which involved walking more than 100 km for 8 days. The first time we had sex I could barely got excited although she is very attractive and she was all naked in front of me. The 3rd time is was a little better as we didn't walk so much for the last days of the trip.
- I had premature ejaculation due to compulsory masturbation for several years. I was such an idiot! Now, I have to invest 30 min per day with Kegel exercises and other stuff to recover my muscles.
Despite that, she was kind and supportive. She just wanted to have fun and didn't expect me to act as a porn star. I told her from the beginning that it might be possible that I will not perform in bed with her and she understood me.
Form my personal experience so far, I think that when you stop FAPping for good, your personal presence, sexual energy increases. Also, if you stop having sexual fantasies with women and move on with you life in terms of goals you will end up attracting a woman / women - depending on how evolved you are, of course.
