08-25-2014, 07:08 AM
I had a rainbow in my thread and am not bi...I didn't put it there either lol
Woodman
Your results sound awesome, adding the ASC really seems to have brought out some extra benefits of you OPA journey
I have finally and unequivocally made up my mind on porn
1. It is truly a pleasure in the moment, that seems/feels inspiration but it is also obviously a HUGE distraction from productivity and pain that needs to be dealt with
2. 2 or more days on porn in a row RUINS my ability to relate to woman, especially new woman, and really fucks up my sexual escalation flow
3. Porn creates emotional pain in me, and aggravates jealousy...it slowly replaces turn on with woman...to only be turned on by other guys with woman...and or competing with other men over the same woman.
4. Every friend I've ever talked to about this who quit porn for two weeks ends up sleeping with one or more new girls even if they haven't had sex in months if not years.
5. Again I like porn, but its just not worth it for my life.As long as the pleasure it gives is greater then the pain of not having real woman in your life-the addiction is easy to continue...
6. For me after quitting the next 2-4 days will feel off and like shit-because it actually is a chemical addiction and the body needs to recover.
7. I always convince myself there is an upside to it.....and honestly there can be...especially if it moves one from apathy to desire.... and come back to it. every few months for a little bit before realizing how not worth it, it is for my life. Its understanding that ends it for me..not thinking its the right thing to do.
Woodman
Your results sound awesome, adding the ASC really seems to have brought out some extra benefits of you OPA journey
I have finally and unequivocally made up my mind on porn
1. It is truly a pleasure in the moment, that seems/feels inspiration but it is also obviously a HUGE distraction from productivity and pain that needs to be dealt with
2. 2 or more days on porn in a row RUINS my ability to relate to woman, especially new woman, and really fucks up my sexual escalation flow
3. Porn creates emotional pain in me, and aggravates jealousy...it slowly replaces turn on with woman...to only be turned on by other guys with woman...and or competing with other men over the same woman.
4. Every friend I've ever talked to about this who quit porn for two weeks ends up sleeping with one or more new girls even if they haven't had sex in months if not years.
5. Again I like porn, but its just not worth it for my life.As long as the pleasure it gives is greater then the pain of not having real woman in your life-the addiction is easy to continue...
6. For me after quitting the next 2-4 days will feel off and like shit-because it actually is a chemical addiction and the body needs to recover.
7. I always convince myself there is an upside to it.....and honestly there can be...especially if it moves one from apathy to desire.... and come back to it. every few months for a little bit before realizing how not worth it, it is for my life. Its understanding that ends it for me..not thinking its the right thing to do.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
