(08-11-2014, 09:57 AM)woodman Wrote: Hello everyone.

Overcoming pornographic addiction is my second sub after OED.
I used OED for 33 days and its worked well.

Pornographic addiction was something I always thought I could overcome ever since I first started using porn. Its always the case ' from tomorrow I will never ever ever do it' but then before you knew it, I was already searching for something new and different. 10 years I wasted my life on it.
Apart from a wonderful career, everything else around me is a mess.
The guilt, shame, insecurity, not having the courage to look into a girl's eyes while talking, (lately Ive been better) so many wonderful chances missed because I always knew that I can go back to porn. I don't want to go too much into details.
but I've realized, accepted the problem, now its time to solve it. I tried many times, I could do without it for a week, but then the urge comes back.
For many, programmes like AM6 or ASC or SM is life changing, but for me its Overcoming Pornographic addiction. I will be taking full control of myself from now on. No more excuses. I am confident it will work.
I am making this tread so that people who have this problem can refer and mainly, Shannon can keep a track on my progress/problems so that he might be able to improve it for others in the future.

My actual plan was to use it alongside Laser Like focus and concentration, but Its not my priority at the moment, so I am using it alongside Pefect Perspective and Proportions.

Any tips or helpful comments are welcome.
Thank you.

(08-11-2014, 03:52 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(08-11-2014, 09:57 AM)woodman Wrote: Hello everyone.

Overcoming pornographic addiction is my second sub after OED.
I used OED for 33 days and its worked well.

Pornographic addiction was something I always thought I could overcome ever since I first started using porn. Its always the case ' from tomorrow I will never ever ever do it' but then before you knew it, I was already searching for something new and different. 10 years I wasted my life on it.
Apart from a wonderful career, everything else around me is a mess.
The guilt, shame, insecurity, not having the courage to look into a girl's eyes while talking, (lately Ive been better) so many wonderful chances missed because I always knew that I can go back to porn. I don't want to go too much into details.
but I've realized, accepted the problem, now its time to solve it. I tried many times, I could do without it for a week, but then the urge comes back.
For many, programmes like AM6 or ASC or SM is life changing, but for me its Overcoming Pornographic addiction. I will be taking full control of myself from now on. No more excuses. I am confident it will work.
I am making this tread so that people who have this problem can refer and mainly, Shannon can keep a track on my progress/problems so that he might be able to improve it for others in the future.

My actual plan was to use it alongside Laser Like focus and concentration, but Its not my priority at the moment, so I am using it alongside Pefect Perspective and Proportions.

Any tips or helpful comments are welcome.
Thank you.

Porn hater, eh? lol. To each their own. Anyhow, what's with the rainbow for your thread? You bi or something?

(08-11-2014, 06:28 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Porn has caused me more issues than not, but I can't seem to permanently give it up. I used this program for about a month on AM 5.0 and it really sped up the process.

Now it takes several months without porn to get to the point I start getting horny again and having more wet dreams, the 'reboot' they talk about. But it seems that I get to that point and do it again. Though it's much improved from before, it would be valuable for me to use this by itself for 90 days.

When I used it I was having wet dreams every night, getting my sex drive back, sex was MUCH better and I actually really appreciated her body where with porn it was like "eh it's okay" and I actually found that life seemed better and more interesting without that dopamine drain.

So good luck with it. It makes a difference. I considered using this for a few months before going to AM6 but the draw to that is too strong for me. If I used it fully I believe I could give up porn more permanently.

-Ben

(08-11-2014, 11:42 PM)woodman Wrote: rainbow was a mistake...stupid touch screen!

(08-12-2014, 03:31 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(08-11-2014, 11:42 PM)woodman Wrote: rainbow was a mistake...stupid touch screen!

Meh, it's all good. Personally, I'm kind of annoyed that the "gays" have "claimed" the rainbow. One of my favorite weapon skins on gears of war 3 is the rainbow for the shotgun, simply because it looks cool. I told my cousin that and he's like "Yeah, they'll assume you're gay" lol, well good for them.

(08-12-2014, 11:43 AM)woodman Wrote: they have claimed even pink! ... i mean...even rose shirts or dark purple...
i don't know if its they who claimed it or its the society thats assuming it!
who cares..
btw..I am keeping a track on your SM progress...

(08-23-2014, 04:37 PM)Shannon Wrote: I find that it's easy to ignore porn when I keep myself sufficiently busy and that means work and socializing. It doesn't hurt to have one or more girlfriends or lovers, also. On rare occasions, I'll find myself looking at porn and then I stop and realize I am wasting my time (BIG no-no with BAMM 2.0) and it's back to work. But it may be a few hours of mindlessly indulging the lizard brain before I realize that. Happens a few times a year for me, maybe.

I have had girlfriends and lovers who looked like these girls, and worked with and befriended models and strippers who did also. Knowing them, and the way their personalities are different because of how they look and how they are subsequently treated actually is a huge help in killing porn. Not just because you have to humanize them, but because you start seeing their failings and normality instead of the fantasy of perfect love and sex goddess that porn tends to delude people into creating in their minds.

The truth is, sex is best with a more compatible woman, regardless of what she looks like. I've had some incredible sex with some incredible women, and some incredibly bad sex with them too. I've also had cases where endlessly awesome sex came from women I would not normally have looked twice at, had not unusual circumstances steered me off course and into noticing them in some unusual way first.

Looks are nice, but what really matters is how you connect in a physical, emotional, mental, maturity, interest, sexual and energy way. Looks alone can give you horribly bad sex, just as easily as amazingly good.