(08-24-2014, 10:16 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Her saying that is basically a form of control and trying to use sex to manipulate you into a relationship. In the past i've stayed strong and said "no i'm not going to promise that" and been prepared to lose her and several times they have been okay with having sex anyway.
It's just bs really.. maintain your own frame and she will probably have sex with you. And you agreeing to hanging out next time without doing anything you are just buying into her bs.
^^Yep, this. I'm sure you realize that she is demanding you to go against what you want in order to get sex. That'd be needy, no way around it. Of course the choice is yours. I'd say don't force her into admitting anything directly, but just say what you think, keep making your own decisions and let her follow or not. Be prepared to lose her and make sure she knows you like her no matter if she follows or not (if you do, that is). Though its gotta be more of a big deal to virgin women, not really my thing.
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