(08-23-2014, 04:37 PM)Shannon Wrote: I find that it's easy to ignore porn when I keep myself sufficiently busy and that means work and socializing. It doesn't hurt to have one or more girlfriends or lovers, also. On rare occasions, I'll find myself looking at porn and then I stop and realize I am wasting my time (BIG no-no with BAMM 2.0) and it's back to work. But it may be a few hours of mindlessly indulging the lizard brain before I realize that. Happens a few times a year for me, maybe.Thanks for the advice Shannon.
I have had girlfriends and lovers who looked like these girls, and worked with and befriended models and strippers who did also. Knowing them, and the way their personalities are different because of how they look and how they are subsequently treated actually is a huge help in killing porn. Not just because you have to humanize them, but because you start seeing their failings and normality instead of the fantasy of perfect love and sex goddess that porn tends to delude people into creating in their minds.
The truth is, sex is best with a more compatible woman, regardless of what she looks like. I've had some incredible sex with some incredible women, and some incredibly bad sex with them too. I've also had cases where endlessly awesome sex came from women I would not normally have looked twice at, had not unusual circumstances steered me off course and into noticing them in some unusual way first.
Looks are nice, but what really matters is how you connect in a physical, emotional, mental, maturity, interest, sexual and energy way. Looks alone can give you horribly bad sex, just as easily as amazingly good.
I agree with everything you say, no doubts.
I realized it few weeks back, its when I am not occupied I am tempted back. its almost like I am programmed that way for a long time. Its not just about sex anymore..its become a habit...today i didn't have even one bit of a an urge. I didn't even put in an effort to resist.
I am working on girlfriend issues...ive had, its been on-off. As you may know, the ED I had been suffering for the past 2 years made be very insecure and I didn't have any confidence..Then the thought that I won't be able to perform because of my problems put me off... You may remember that I used OED5g and I am cured now, so now I am back into game. I only craved for porn when I am near my PC and for the past few days I had been surrounded by some attractive girls, but its just that I got friend zoned long time back,Big Grin but some of them are single now.......anyway, I will solve my issues step by step,
I am kinda tempted to stop using OPA and use ASC 5g, because I noticed that when I was used it for just 3 days I had urges to just hit on random girls, there were urges inside me saying,' go ask that chick something' I talked to people in my office I normally wouldn't, girls (friends) didn't let me go back home from the bar. they would say things like," c'mon what are you going to do tomorrow?"..almost got laid but it was before I used OED5g...and failure would have made it very bad for me because the word would have spread like wild fire because we had a lot of common friends..One chick even started calling me Honey on more than two occassions ...and when I did have urges to look at porn, I would just pass it off....I even exercised more than I would normally do. Career side too saw its upside, just with those three days I had been able to gain so much momentum it continued showing benefits for more than a month.
ASC is just that awesome for me.
I am just pondering if I should stop OPA for now, and use ASC for 32 days and then use OPA again with BIABW.
Just asking your advice, I am open to suggestions, after all, this is why I am sharing my experience here. Smile
