08-24-2014, 04:36 AM
(08-23-2014, 10:42 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: Also, huge reframes thanks to Johnny Soporno and his speaking. A BIG one is looking for women with whom you'd LIKE to sleep with as opposed to looking for a media's "8 to 10". It doesn't matter if she's fat, balding, and missing teeth; if she makes my dick hard, and I enjoy having sex with her AND her company, that's all that matters. That's what will bring me a happy life, as opposed to finding women that are pre-approved by friends because she's hot.
I've been living this paradigm unconsciously for a while, and the women that I like stand out to me pretty instantly, but chucking this paradigm away will do me good. IF I LIKE HER (and she like's me), THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS! Granted, the women in which I'm attracted that way are often attractive to others, but that's mostly coincidence.
Totally agree with this. I'd also say that when you approach women you're NOT interested in, she feels it and is repelled anyways.
However, I think EVERY woman has at least 1,000 guys in her life that want to f*ck her, so don't look for girls you won't have competition with, as that will push you out of the "pool".
