08-21-2014, 04:05 PM
(08-21-2014, 08:28 AM)guilotine Wrote: I try to stay relaxed during the whole process(Deep breathing). Also it is very important to be fully present in your body and not imagine stuff. If I try to fantasize stuff I tend to lose control so that's probably why I have a hard time doing it with porn.
Basically as I feel the sexual energy building up I take a few deep breaths and fully relax. I can then feel the energy rising up my spine and spreading throughout my body in a subtle way. It's a cool experience but not mind blowing to me at this point maybe because I don't have enough sexual energy built up. To achieve the dry orgasm I build my arousal close to orgasm level and then relax, take a few deep breaths and sometimes squeez the pc muscles(not always). Once I relax I build up to orgasm again but this time I push a little further and relax again. Keep doing this but each time I push further and further until at one point I go through the entire orgasm with little to no ejaculation. Sometimes there is a little but I think that is the pre ejaculate. I usually have to build up many times before I am comfortable enough to have the orgasm. Also like I said if you aren't fully present you can go overboard pretty easily. Still not sure how to incorporate this during sex though. Hope that helps.
Mastering this is definitely one of my major goals too. That would be epic!
Oh shit! I used to do that ALL the time! When going to porn for like 4 hours or more, I'd get into "the zone" and just be able to ease into it just like you say. Usually a little precum comes out but it's totally a release, like I'd have to start from a lower level of arousal afterwards.
Any tips on how to replicate it other than being present, books maybe? Thanks.
