(08-21-2014, 03:26 AM)LionKing Wrote: Please do! How are you doing it; directing energy upwards, squeezing your pc somewhow, ksmo, some other style? Many months ago I succesfully had one of those where energy shot up my spine and my head kind of exploded.. then 1-2 months ago I managed another kind a few times, where I started to feel something faint in my chest or so and then as I allowed it be it slowly grew and grew to quite strong. The time span was a few minutes and I had to really try to remain relaxed and let it grow.. I was kinda worried I might get hurt or something, scary lol. It'd be great to master those, because then you could basically have as much sex as you want as still be driven after that to do other things and not just want to be left alone. For some reason it just seems hard to find the time to practice.
I try to stay relaxed during the whole process(Deep breathing). Also it is very important to be fully present in your body and not imagine stuff. If I try to fantasize stuff I tend to lose control so that's probably why I have a hard time doing it with porn.
Basically as I feel the sexual energy building up I take a few deep breaths and fully relax. I can then feel the energy rising up my spine and spreading throughout my body in a subtle way. It's a cool experience but not mind blowing to me at this point maybe because I don't have enough sexual energy built up. To achieve the dry orgasm I build my arousal close to orgasm level and then relax, take a few deep breaths and sometimes squeez the pc muscles(not always). Once I relax I build up to orgasm again but this time I push a little further and relax again. Keep doing this but each time I push further and further until at one point I go through the entire orgasm with little to no ejaculation. Sometimes there is a little but I think that is the pre ejaculate. I usually have to build up many times before I am comfortable enough to have the orgasm. Also like I said if you aren't fully present you can go overboard pretty easily. Still not sure how to incorporate this during sex though. Hope that helps.
Mastering this is definitely one of my major goals too. That would be epic!
