(08-14-2014, 11:49 AM)AriGold Wrote: So you're living with your parents? In that case I think BASE would be the better choice. Reason for that is that you would get into fights with them. An alpha needs to be free and if you're still living with your parents probability is high that they won't let you live your own way or they have problems with you changing that fast. But that's just my opinion and nobody knows what happens when you use BASE.
That kind of did happen on ASC too, but not the negative kind of fight but rather me explaining that I can't get anywhere if they are being on my way all the time.
(08-14-2014, 12:51 PM)ffaux Wrote: AM has been good for me. AM is quite holistic and has started helping me in a lot of directions including women, career and business. The only caution I'd give is to not start AM and then wish you hadn't as soon as BASE comes out. If you do AM make sure you're doing it because you want to complete AM not because you're just waiting for BASE.
I'm doing AM and I live with my parents. I haven't really clashed with them since starting. If anything my relationship with them has improved. It's definitely time that I move out and I will probably do so later this year but that's not to avoid conflict it's just because it's time for ffaux to grow up haha. The only time AM will cause you to seek out conflict with your parents is if they have been oppressing you in which case they've had it coming
The thing is that I only recently moved back home, I've been living on my own in a different country in bursts of 7 months and I have returned twice, I just don't want to get an another slave job to do that now. And after reading the fastlane book, I think like that even more although I have known what it said for a while.
What I can take from all this is that I just have to make the choice that feel the best for me now and stick with it.
Thanks Ari and ffaux.
INFP-T
"If you dont work on shedding your emotional and spiritual baggage and egoic nature, then you are still a dead weight in society.. offering nothing.." - Anonymous
"If you dont work on shedding your emotional and spiritual baggage and egoic nature, then you are still a dead weight in society.. offering nothing.." - Anonymous