Ampers&d Finds His Mojo [SM3.0]

[swisston]

^^ Lots of limiting beliefs there. I know because because I used to believe that. My brain isn't working 100% now, but off the top of my head:
-to be with a woman sexually, I should offer her exclusivity
-My time, company, presence, sex, etc isn't valuable enough on its own
-it's wrong to date multiple women, and therefore I should hide it. If the woman later on finds out I've been hiding it, or lying about it, she will feel betrayed and get angry at me
-women are not open to open relationships (I'm finding they're open to all kinds of things, as long as they know they don't have to admit it in public, they can trust you, and you're being open & appreciative towards them)
-its wrong to be a player/gigolo/whatever. Guys like that are not as honest, ethical or empathetic as ones that only date a single woman at a time
-I want to own my girl and I don't want her dating other guys.
-When I'm dating a girl, I need to keep contact with her throughout the day/week.
-I should now what my girl is doing and, if she asks, I should tell her what I'm doing/thinking/planning

I didn't say that it was my belief It is just my experience that most women (not all) won't want anything to do with open relationships; as you say they need to feel the security.

I am all for a bit of free love, but much of the world isn't ready for it.

My only concern was that he was discussing being able to hold down four women for dating at a time when he has no dating experience yet! It's a fantastic bit of optimism, but I suspect the reality would be much harder with lots of potentially hurt feelings.

Even if they are just fuck buddies, women still tend to get attached.