08-11-2014, 09:45 PM
Stage 2, Day 24,
I've got a second date on Sunday. The second girl I met yesterday; she also seems very eager to meet me, even offering to keep my busking gear in her car if it's too cumbersome.. come on, it couldn't be much easier than that.
The one thing that I was apprehensive about was the braces, and how it would play into any foreplay (kissing, oral). And I've read that it shouldn't be a factor, unless she's really inexperience and puts it in her cheek. Now, I kind it kind of sexy. In her words, "let's see where the night takes us"
My sex drive is pretty wild right now. I could take care of my business in the morning, and then I could be in the mood for more in the evening. I don't, cause that would just zap my energy.
I want to figure out exactly the dynamic I want when it comes to dating multiple women; I could just sleep with any woman that floats my fancy and not become attached to any particular woman. Or I could sleep with a new woman, enjoy her company for as long as we can over the course of weeks or months, while having new women come into my life as well. Or I could make it a point of having four girlfriends, and when one splits, I find another woman to fill that role.
What I'm trying to say is that I want to figure this out, so that I can explain it to any new woman that comes into my life, and that I'm not changing my 'dynamic' every week, showing that I'm not really sure. I'd like some guidance on this. As a point of reference, I've never had a girlfriend, nor have I gone further than 'casual dating'.
Thanks!
I've got a second date on Sunday. The second girl I met yesterday; she also seems very eager to meet me, even offering to keep my busking gear in her car if it's too cumbersome.. come on, it couldn't be much easier than that.
The one thing that I was apprehensive about was the braces, and how it would play into any foreplay (kissing, oral). And I've read that it shouldn't be a factor, unless she's really inexperience and puts it in her cheek. Now, I kind it kind of sexy. In her words, "let's see where the night takes us"
My sex drive is pretty wild right now. I could take care of my business in the morning, and then I could be in the mood for more in the evening. I don't, cause that would just zap my energy.
I want to figure out exactly the dynamic I want when it comes to dating multiple women; I could just sleep with any woman that floats my fancy and not become attached to any particular woman. Or I could sleep with a new woman, enjoy her company for as long as we can over the course of weeks or months, while having new women come into my life as well. Or I could make it a point of having four girlfriends, and when one splits, I find another woman to fill that role.
What I'm trying to say is that I want to figure this out, so that I can explain it to any new woman that comes into my life, and that I'm not changing my 'dynamic' every week, showing that I'm not really sure. I'd like some guidance on this. As a point of reference, I've never had a girlfriend, nor have I gone further than 'casual dating'.
Thanks!
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