08-01-2014, 02:35 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-01-2014, 02:36 PM by SargeMaximus.)
(08-01-2014, 07:40 AM)DanAmerson Wrote: @SargeMaximus; What do you mean when you say: "Games are fine, as long as you're directing them."? Why can't both parties just play nice and, you know, not toy with one another?
It bothered me because I set a term, and she uses it against me. Anyways..
Well, there's such a thing as being a "stick in the mud". You gotta play with her. If you can't, she'll assume (and assume correctly) that sex with you will be just as dull and controlled. She wants spontaneity, LIFE, impulse and RAW EMOTION. Sex IS a game (I believe), one we play now that we've grown up lol. Hope that makes sense.
Now, if you actually WANT to be set as a provider/"beta husband", then by all means, go 1950's. But breaking the rules is fun, and being outlaws together creates a great dynamic.